If you can get out, let's meet in person tomorrow night!
Please stop by
the baystateparent Girls' Night Out
at Tush Denim
Green St., Worcester
tomorrow night
Tuesday, March 31 at 7 p.m.
* Complimentary drinks and apps from Block 5, Mezcal and Bocado plus mini designer cupcakes from Worcester's sugargirls
* Giveaways!!
* Meet one of Boston's top personal shoppers for tips on how to buy jeans that really fit you!
* Sign up for your first 5K (and receive free ongoing support from local mom and marathoner, Trish Reske)
* Free cookies from Boylston's Wicked Good Cookies
* Networking and conversation with like-minded women
For directions, visit tushdenim.com
Monday, March 30, 2009
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Families Needed for NBC Reality Show
baystateparent received the following release. Thought it would be fun for families!
BOSTON CASTING SEEKS DYNAMIC FAMILIES FOR NEW
NBC REALITY SHOW
"THE GREAT AMERICAN ROAD TRIP"
- Casting now for outgoing families with at least 2 kids ages 10 - 16 to participate in the road trip of a lifetime! -
March 27, 2009-- Boston, MA-- Are you an outgoing and fun family with at least 2 kids between the ages of 10 and 16? Boston Casting is looking for New England's most extroverted families for NBC's new reality show THE GREAT AMERICAN ROAD TRIP.
What type of family are you?
We're looking for The Ultimate Red Sox/Patriots/Celtics/Bruins Fans, The Loudest Family, The Clean Freaks, The Brainiacs, The Trekkie Family, The Real Life Griswalds, The Cheap Family, The Musical Family, or any other type of Fun Family!
Interested families must be available early May to late June 2009. Families who are chosen will receive $2000 per week plus per diem and the potential for a Grand Prize!
To be considered for THE GREAT AMERICAN ROAD TRIP, e-mail the following information to ashley@bostoncasting.com:
· Names
· Contact phone number and city where you reside
· Picture of your family
· Ages of your family members
· Brief explanation of why your family should be on the show
Submissions being accepted now! For more information, contact Boston Casting at 617-254-1001, x3 or visit www.bostoncasting.com.
Media Contact: Julie Arvedon, Boston Casting
617-254-1001, x110
julie@bostoncasting.com
Established in 1991, Boston Casting has since become the premiere casting company in New England, having worked with directors such as Errol Morris, The Farrelly Brothers, David Mamet and Rob Reiner. With over 3,000 square feet of office and studio space, Boston Casting is the largest casting company in New England. Boston Casting specializes in casting feature films, commercials and reality television shows, for principal roles as well as extras. With over 30,000 actors on file, including children, special ability actors and those seeking reality television fame, Boston Casting proves to be a versatile and resourceful company that continues to excel at arranging the perfect ensembles.
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BOSTON CASTING SEEKS DYNAMIC FAMILIES FOR NEW
NBC REALITY SHOW
"THE GREAT AMERICAN ROAD TRIP"
- Casting now for outgoing families with at least 2 kids ages 10 - 16 to participate in the road trip of a lifetime! -
March 27, 2009-- Boston, MA-- Are you an outgoing and fun family with at least 2 kids between the ages of 10 and 16? Boston Casting is looking for New England's most extroverted families for NBC's new reality show THE GREAT AMERICAN ROAD TRIP.
What type of family are you?
We're looking for The Ultimate Red Sox/Patriots/Celtics/Bruins Fans, The Loudest Family, The Clean Freaks, The Brainiacs, The Trekkie Family, The Real Life Griswalds, The Cheap Family, The Musical Family, or any other type of Fun Family!
Interested families must be available early May to late June 2009. Families who are chosen will receive $2000 per week plus per diem and the potential for a Grand Prize!
To be considered for THE GREAT AMERICAN ROAD TRIP, e-mail the following information to ashley@bostoncasting.com:
· Names
· Contact phone number and city where you reside
· Picture of your family
· Ages of your family members
· Brief explanation of why your family should be on the show
Submissions being accepted now! For more information, contact Boston Casting at 617-254-1001, x3 or visit www.bostoncasting.com.
Media Contact: Julie Arvedon, Boston Casting
617-254-1001, x110
julie@bostoncasting.com
Established in 1991, Boston Casting has since become the premiere casting company in New England, having worked with directors such as Errol Morris, The Farrelly Brothers, David Mamet and Rob Reiner. With over 3,000 square feet of office and studio space, Boston Casting is the largest casting company in New England. Boston Casting specializes in casting feature films, commercials and reality television shows, for principal roles as well as extras. With over 30,000 actors on file, including children, special ability actors and those seeking reality television fame, Boston Casting proves to be a versatile and resourceful company that continues to excel at arranging the perfect ensembles.
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Free Admission Thursday, April 2
Parents, We heard from the FITCHBURG ART MUSEUM that there will be free admission this Thursday, 4 - 8 p.m. The press release follows:
Fitchburg Art Museum will have free admission on Thursday 2 April from 4pm
to 8pm as part of Mayor Wong¹s First Thursday celebrations. The Museum¹s
new stunning exhibition All Things Bright & Beautiful, a collection of
California Impressionist Paintings from the Irvine Museum will be available
for viewing and visitors to the Museum will be able to see a live production
of FATV interview with Major Wong. There will be a free guided tour
available at 6:00 p.m. Please call on 978 345 4207 or visit
www.fitchburgartmuseum.org . The Museum
is wheelchair accessible and is located at 25 Merriam Parkway, Fitchburg, MA
01420.
About the Fitchburg Art Museum
The Fitchburg Art Museum is North Central Massachusetts¹s oldest and most
treasured cultural institution, founded in 1925 through a bequest of artist
and educator Eleanor Norcross. Fourteen galleries house a diverse
collection of over 3,000 objects spanning more than fifty centuries. These
include American and European paintings, prints, drawings and decorative
arts as well as Egyptian, Greek, Roman, Asian and pre-Columbian antiquities,
and changing exhibitions.
Highlights from the permanent painting collections include masterworks from
John Singleton Copley, Rockwell Kent, Georgia O¹Keeffe, Joseph Stella, Raoul
Dufy and Joseph Wright of Derby.
Hours: Tuesday Sunday Noon 4pm. From April 1, our new hours will be,
Wednesday Friday, Noon 4pm, Saturday and Sunday 11 am 5 pm. Closed
Monday¹s.
Admission: Free for members; $7 for adults. $5 for seniors and students
(13+). Fitchburg Art Museum supports Fitchburg¹s First Thursday program and
is free from 4.30 p.m. 8 p.m. every first Thursday of the month. The
Museum is wheelchair accessible.
Info: Call 978 345 4207 or visit www.fitchburgartmusuem.org/
Contacts: Peter Timms Director. Email - ptimms@fitchburgartmusuem.org
. Phone 978 342 4207 ext 301
Fiona Casey Director of Marketing.
Email fcasey@fitchburgartmuseum.org or phone 978-342-4207 ext 312
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Fitchburg Art Museum will have free admission on Thursday 2 April from 4pm
to 8pm as part of Mayor Wong¹s First Thursday celebrations. The Museum¹s
new stunning exhibition All Things Bright & Beautiful, a collection of
California Impressionist Paintings from the Irvine Museum will be available
for viewing and visitors to the Museum will be able to see a live production
of FATV interview with Major Wong. There will be a free guided tour
available at 6:00 p.m. Please call on 978 345 4207 or visit
www.fitchburgartmuseum.org
is wheelchair accessible and is located at 25 Merriam Parkway, Fitchburg, MA
01420.
About the Fitchburg Art Museum
The Fitchburg Art Museum is North Central Massachusetts¹s oldest and most
treasured cultural institution, founded in 1925 through a bequest of artist
and educator Eleanor Norcross. Fourteen galleries house a diverse
collection of over 3,000 objects spanning more than fifty centuries. These
include American and European paintings, prints, drawings and decorative
arts as well as Egyptian, Greek, Roman, Asian and pre-Columbian antiquities,
and changing exhibitions.
Highlights from the permanent painting collections include masterworks from
John Singleton Copley, Rockwell Kent, Georgia O¹Keeffe, Joseph Stella, Raoul
Dufy and Joseph Wright of Derby.
Hours: Tuesday Sunday Noon 4pm. From April 1, our new hours will be,
Wednesday Friday, Noon 4pm, Saturday and Sunday 11 am 5 pm. Closed
Monday¹s.
Admission: Free for members; $7 for adults. $5 for seniors and students
(13+). Fitchburg Art Museum supports Fitchburg¹s First Thursday program and
is free from 4.30 p.m. 8 p.m. every first Thursday of the month. The
Museum is wheelchair accessible.
Info: Call 978 345 4207 or visit www.fitchburgartmusuem.org/
Contacts: Peter Timms Director. Email - ptimms@fitchburgartmusuem.org
Fiona Casey Director of Marketing.
Email fcasey@fitchburgartmuseum.org or phone 978-342-4207 ext 312
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Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Say "No" to Paper or Plastic at Shaw's
IN HONOR OF EARTH DAY: SHAW’S IS MAKING A DONATION
TO MASS AUDUBON WITH EVERY REUSABLE BAG
SAY “NO” TO PAPER OR PLASTIC AT SHAW’S
(Lincoln, MA) – When reusable bags are purchased in the month of April at Shaw’s and Star Market, customers are helping the environment in more ways than one. With every reusable bag, Shaw’s will donate five cents to Mass Audubon and shoppers will help to shrink their environmental footprint by reducing usage of plastic and paper bags.
“We believe that reusable bags are the better environmental option as compared to paper or plastic bags,” said Shaw’s president Larry Wahlstrom. “Last year, Shaw’s significantly increased the awareness and sales of reusable bags by approximately 90%. We want to continue that tremendous success.”
“We are pleased to be a partner in this effort,” said Mass Audubon president Laura Johnson. “Not only does this encourage individuals to reduce their environmental footprint, but this also helps raise awareness of Mass Audubon’s mission of protecting the nature of Massachusetts for people and for wildlife.”
With every 99 cent Earth Day bag sold, five cents will be donated to Audubon Societies throughout New England, including Mass Audubon, Connecticut Audubon Society, Maine Audubon Society, New Hampshire Audubon Society, Rhode Island Audubon Society, and Vermont Audubon Society.
The Earth Day bags will be sold at all Shaw’s Supermarkets and Massachusetts Star Market locations from April 1 through April 30, 2009.
Other benefits that customers have discovered are that the reusable bags hold more groceries, which reduces the amount of trips from the car to the house, and the bags are sturdier for holding the heavy items such as cans.
TO MASS AUDUBON WITH EVERY REUSABLE BAG
SAY “NO” TO PAPER OR PLASTIC AT SHAW’S
(Lincoln, MA) – When reusable bags are purchased in the month of April at Shaw’s and Star Market, customers are helping the environment in more ways than one. With every reusable bag, Shaw’s will donate five cents to Mass Audubon and shoppers will help to shrink their environmental footprint by reducing usage of plastic and paper bags.
“We believe that reusable bags are the better environmental option as compared to paper or plastic bags,” said Shaw’s president Larry Wahlstrom. “Last year, Shaw’s significantly increased the awareness and sales of reusable bags by approximately 90%. We want to continue that tremendous success.”
“We are pleased to be a partner in this effort,” said Mass Audubon president Laura Johnson. “Not only does this encourage individuals to reduce their environmental footprint, but this also helps raise awareness of Mass Audubon’s mission of protecting the nature of Massachusetts for people and for wildlife.”
With every 99 cent Earth Day bag sold, five cents will be donated to Audubon Societies throughout New England, including Mass Audubon, Connecticut Audubon Society, Maine Audubon Society, New Hampshire Audubon Society, Rhode Island Audubon Society, and Vermont Audubon Society.
The Earth Day bags will be sold at all Shaw’s Supermarkets and Massachusetts Star Market locations from April 1 through April 30, 2009.
Other benefits that customers have discovered are that the reusable bags hold more groceries, which reduces the amount of trips from the car to the house, and the bags are sturdier for holding the heavy items such as cans.
Monday, March 23, 2009
baystateparent gives free prizes in Boston!
Jennifer Antkowiak, our promotions coordinator, raffled off these great prizes at the American Baby and Family Expo in Boston over the weekend. Congrats to:
Colleen Finocchiaro of Danvers
Holly Deak of Brookline
Michelle Morrison of Lowell
Maggie Robinson of Brookline
Barbara Lufkin of Brockton
Amy Hook of Lynn
Tara Jean of Dracut
Lisa Tucker of Norwood
Thanks for stopping by our booth, which looks fabulous, by the way.
Thanks to Balloon Platoon for making our booth look so fantastic.
We are giving our more "wicked good cookies" with our February cover on them next Tuesday at Girls' Night Out --Tush Denim on Green St. in Worcester. Hope you can join us!
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Globetrotter Player to Visit the Boston Children's Museum Friday, March 20
Globetrotters Go ‘Green at Night’
Photo Opportunity
Buckets Blakes Visits Boston Children’s Museum to Promote Recycling to Keep the Globe Clean
WHAT: Buckets Blakes of the World Famous Harlem Globetrotters, will pay a visit to Boston Children’s Museum to help promote the Museum’s weekly “Green at Night” program. “Green at Night” gives visitors the chance to build, explore, touch and learn-all in the name of the environment.
Buckets Blakes will recreate the iconic “Magic Circle” and invite children to build basketballs and nets out of recycled materials. The group will learn basketball technique and the importance of recycling all in one session with Buckets Blakes.
WHO: Buckets Blakes of the World Famous Harlem Globetrotters
Visitors from Boston Children’s Museum, Boston’s First Green Museum
WHERE: Boston Children’s Museum
300 Congress Street
Boston, MA 02210
WHEN: Friday, March 20, 2009
5:00-6:00 PM
WHY: The legendary Harlem Globetrotters are bringing their 2009 World Tour to Boston and will take the court on Sunday, March 29, 2009 at 1:00 PM and Monday, March 30, 2009 at 7:00 PM. Tickets start at $17.00 and are available at the TD Banknorth Garden box office and www.ticketmaster.com or 1-800-745-3000. Individual ticket information can also be found on the Harlem Globetrotters’ official Web site: www.harlemglobetrotters.com, as well as info on group and scout tickets.
Boston Children's Museum
300 Congress Street
Boston, MA 02210
www.BostonChildrensMuseum.org
Boston Children’s Museum is on Facebook. Become a fan today!
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Boston-MA/Boston-Childrens-Museum/45950374069?ref=ts
Photo Opportunity
Buckets Blakes Visits Boston Children’s Museum to Promote Recycling to Keep the Globe Clean
WHAT: Buckets Blakes of the World Famous Harlem Globetrotters, will pay a visit to Boston Children’s Museum to help promote the Museum’s weekly “Green at Night” program. “Green at Night” gives visitors the chance to build, explore, touch and learn-all in the name of the environment.
Buckets Blakes will recreate the iconic “Magic Circle” and invite children to build basketballs and nets out of recycled materials. The group will learn basketball technique and the importance of recycling all in one session with Buckets Blakes.
WHO: Buckets Blakes of the World Famous Harlem Globetrotters
Visitors from Boston Children’s Museum, Boston’s First Green Museum
WHERE: Boston Children’s Museum
300 Congress Street
Boston, MA 02210
WHEN: Friday, March 20, 2009
5:00-6:00 PM
WHY: The legendary Harlem Globetrotters are bringing their 2009 World Tour to Boston and will take the court on Sunday, March 29, 2009 at 1:00 PM and Monday, March 30, 2009 at 7:00 PM. Tickets start at $17.00 and are available at the TD Banknorth Garden box office and www.ticketmaster.com or 1-800-745-3000. Individual ticket information can also be found on the Harlem Globetrotters’ official Web site: www.harlemglobetrotters.com, as well as info on group and scout tickets.
Boston Children's Museum
300 Congress Street
Boston, MA 02210
www.BostonChildrensMuseum.org
Boston Children’s Museum is on Facebook. Become a fan today!
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Boston-MA/Boston-Childrens-Museum/45950374069?ref=ts
March 27: Celebrate Earth Hour with Goddard Systems
Families: Turn off Your Lights on Saturday, March 28
Goddard Schools are Kicking it Off!
Goddard Systems, Inc., named the number one child care franchise company for the eighth year in a row by Entrepreneur magazine, is proud to announce it has joined World Wildlife Fund’s 2009 Earth Hour. A global call to action on climate change, during Earth Hour on Saturday, March 28th at 8:30 p.m. hundreds of millions of people around the world will turn off their lights for one hour in a vote for action on the climate crisis.
Across 320 Goddard Schools nationwide, more than 40,000 children will help spread the message that by working together, each one of them can make a positive impact in working towards a sustainable future. The Goddard Schools will launch an entire week of activities and lesson plans beginning March 23rd leading up to a big celebration for the Stepping Up for the Environment event on March 27th at 10 a.m., a day before the global event.
“This is an exciting opportunity for Goddard Schools’ teachers and children to get creative in ‘stepping up’ awareness about saving energy and the environment,”says Joseph Schumacher, Chief Operating Officer at Goddard Systems, Inc. “Joining Earth Hour enables our students to get the message out to their families, at their school and in their communities.”
Throughout the week, children and teachers will participate in a variety of fun activities, games and lessons designed to increase their awareness of how energy use and daily activities can affect the future of the planet and how they can conserve energy in their daily lives. To help provide content to schools and children, World Wildlife Fund has created a website, www.EarthHourKids.org which features lesson-plans, games and songs children can download. There is also a section for parents to email their state and federal representatives.
In preparation for Earth Hour, Goddard Schools will integrate the environment into a number of engaging learning activities including art projects, science lessons and even during snack time! Classes will nominate an official “Lightning Bug,” who will be responsible for always turning off the classroom lights when the children exit the room. Students will also create invitations asking parents and neighboring buildings to join them in Earth Hour.
On March 27th, Goddard Schools will celebrate Earth Hour with the Stepping Up for the Environment event. Each Goddard School across the country will create a large banner and students will decorate it with handprints and footprints, leaving their own little “carbon” footprint. Children of the older classrooms will either deliver the banner to the city or town hall to let them know about Earth Hour, or invite a city official to the school to receive the banner. Then, at 10 a.m., schools will turn off any non-essential lighting for one hour.
Participation in Earth Hour supports Goddard Systems, Inc.’s ongoing efforts and commitment to the environment. Recently, Goddard has become involved with Renewable Energy Credits (RECs) which give schools the option of purchasing wind energy credits, offsetting 100% of a schools electricity usage with clean, renewable wind power.
About Goddard Systems, Inc. www.goddardschool.com
Recently named #1 Childcare Franchise in the United States, by Entrepreneur magazine, for the eighth consecutive year (January 2009) and one of the Top 200 Franchise Systems (in worldwide sales), by Franchise Times, for the second consecutive year (October 2008); Goddard Systems, Inc. (GSI) is expanding The Goddard School® network throughout the United States. Headquartered in King of Prussia, Pennsylvania, GSI currently licenses 320+ franchised schools with more than 40,000 students in 37 states. With a successful system in place and dedicated franchisees, GSI is the acknowledged leader in franchised childcare and a premier childcare provider in the United States.
About World Wildlife Fund and Earth Hour
Earth Hour (www.EarthHourUs.org) is a global initiative of WWF in which millions of people around the world will cast a vote in favor of action on climate change by turning off their lights for one hour on March 28, 2009 at 8:30 p.m. local time. By voting with their light switches, Earth Hour participants will send a powerful, visual message to their leaders demanding immediate action on climate change. WWF is the world’s leading conservation organization, working in 100 countries for nearly half a century. With the support of almost 5 million members worldwide, WWF is dedicated to delivering science-based solutions to preserve the diversity and abundance of life on Earth, stop the degradation of the environment and combat climate changes. Visit www.worldwildlife.org to learn more. For more information on WWF, please contact Dan Forman at 202-495-4546 / dan.forman@wwfus.org
Note to Editors: B-roll and Earth Hour still images can be found at www.earthhour.org/mediacentre.
Goddard Schools are Kicking it Off!
Goddard Systems, Inc., named the number one child care franchise company for the eighth year in a row by Entrepreneur magazine, is proud to announce it has joined World Wildlife Fund’s 2009 Earth Hour. A global call to action on climate change, during Earth Hour on Saturday, March 28th at 8:30 p.m. hundreds of millions of people around the world will turn off their lights for one hour in a vote for action on the climate crisis.
Across 320 Goddard Schools nationwide, more than 40,000 children will help spread the message that by working together, each one of them can make a positive impact in working towards a sustainable future. The Goddard Schools will launch an entire week of activities and lesson plans beginning March 23rd leading up to a big celebration for the Stepping Up for the Environment event on March 27th at 10 a.m., a day before the global event.
“This is an exciting opportunity for Goddard Schools’ teachers and children to get creative in ‘stepping up’ awareness about saving energy and the environment,”says Joseph Schumacher, Chief Operating Officer at Goddard Systems, Inc. “Joining Earth Hour enables our students to get the message out to their families, at their school and in their communities.”
Throughout the week, children and teachers will participate in a variety of fun activities, games and lessons designed to increase their awareness of how energy use and daily activities can affect the future of the planet and how they can conserve energy in their daily lives. To help provide content to schools and children, World Wildlife Fund has created a website, www.EarthHourKids.org which features lesson-plans, games and songs children can download. There is also a section for parents to email their state and federal representatives.
In preparation for Earth Hour, Goddard Schools will integrate the environment into a number of engaging learning activities including art projects, science lessons and even during snack time! Classes will nominate an official “Lightning Bug,” who will be responsible for always turning off the classroom lights when the children exit the room. Students will also create invitations asking parents and neighboring buildings to join them in Earth Hour.
On March 27th, Goddard Schools will celebrate Earth Hour with the Stepping Up for the Environment event. Each Goddard School across the country will create a large banner and students will decorate it with handprints and footprints, leaving their own little “carbon” footprint. Children of the older classrooms will either deliver the banner to the city or town hall to let them know about Earth Hour, or invite a city official to the school to receive the banner. Then, at 10 a.m., schools will turn off any non-essential lighting for one hour.
Participation in Earth Hour supports Goddard Systems, Inc.’s ongoing efforts and commitment to the environment. Recently, Goddard has become involved with Renewable Energy Credits (RECs) which give schools the option of purchasing wind energy credits, offsetting 100% of a schools electricity usage with clean, renewable wind power.
About Goddard Systems, Inc. www.goddardschool.com
Recently named #1 Childcare Franchise in the United States, by Entrepreneur magazine, for the eighth consecutive year (January 2009) and one of the Top 200 Franchise Systems (in worldwide sales), by Franchise Times, for the second consecutive year (October 2008); Goddard Systems, Inc. (GSI) is expanding The Goddard School® network throughout the United States. Headquartered in King of Prussia, Pennsylvania, GSI currently licenses 320+ franchised schools with more than 40,000 students in 37 states. With a successful system in place and dedicated franchisees, GSI is the acknowledged leader in franchised childcare and a premier childcare provider in the United States.
About World Wildlife Fund and Earth Hour
Earth Hour (www.EarthHourUs.org) is a global initiative of WWF in which millions of people around the world will cast a vote in favor of action on climate change by turning off their lights for one hour on March 28, 2009 at 8:30 p.m. local time. By voting with their light switches, Earth Hour participants will send a powerful, visual message to their leaders demanding immediate action on climate change. WWF is the world’s leading conservation organization, working in 100 countries for nearly half a century. With the support of almost 5 million members worldwide, WWF is dedicated to delivering science-based solutions to preserve the diversity and abundance of life on Earth, stop the degradation of the environment and combat climate changes. Visit www.worldwildlife.org to learn more. For more information on WWF, please contact Dan Forman at 202-495-4546 / dan.forman@wwfus.org
Note to Editors: B-roll and Earth Hour still images can be found at www.earthhour.org/mediacentre.
Hard Rock Films for and about Women on April 15
April 15, 2009
5:30 PM Reception, 7:00 PM Showtime
Hard Rock Cafe, 22-24 Clinton Street, Boston
Enjoy an evening of award-winning short films in support of a worthy cause! LUNAfest is a program of ten short films by, for and about women that celebrate the unique, touching and inspirational roles of women in our local, national and international communities. 100% of LUNAFest proceeds are donated to The Ellie Fund and the Breast Cancer Fund. For more information about the films, visit www.lunafest.org
Tickets are $25 in advance and include great food and drinks, fun auction and prizes, and GREAT giftbags for everyone. RSVP today at www.elliefund.org/lunafest09.htm as the event will sell out in advance.
781-449-0100
E-mail: lunafest@elliefund.org
www.elliefund.org/lunafest09.htm
5:30 PM Reception, 7:00 PM Showtime
Hard Rock Cafe, 22-24 Clinton Street, Boston
Enjoy an evening of award-winning short films in support of a worthy cause! LUNAfest is a program of ten short films by, for and about women that celebrate the unique, touching and inspirational roles of women in our local, national and international communities. 100% of LUNAFest proceeds are donated to The Ellie Fund and the Breast Cancer Fund. For more information about the films, visit www.lunafest.org
Tickets are $25 in advance and include great food and drinks, fun auction and prizes, and GREAT giftbags for everyone. RSVP today at www.elliefund.org/lunafest09.htm as the event will sell out in advance.
781-449-0100
E-mail: lunafest@elliefund.org
www.elliefund.org/lunafest09.htm
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
March 26: Free Berklee College of Music Concert
baystateparent is told that this is a great music event for families with children ages 5 and up.
When: March 26 at 6:30 p.m.
Where: Trinity Church in Copley Square
206 Clarendon Street
Boston, MA
Hosted by FUJITSU TEN and Berklee College of Music, the ECLIPSE Masterclass is open to the public and is free of charge. For more information as well as to secure the best seating, please visit http://www.fujitsu-ten.co.jp/english/eclipsemasterclass/index.html
This year’s event will feature performances by the British contemporary cellist and assistant music director for BBC’s The Manchester Passion, Peter Gregson, who is known for his unique performing technique and who has just completed his debut album this month, from which he will play multiple tracks on an electric cello. Gregson will play interactively with Milton Mermikides, professor at Royal Academy of Music in England, who will be managing live electronics including computer programming and manipulation. Another key component in the performance will be the unique 10-speaker ECLIPSE TD 712z system configured for an omnidirectional response that will be enhanced by Trinity Church’s distinctive acoustics, making for a very special musical event.
When: March 26 at 6:30 p.m.
Where: Trinity Church in Copley Square
206 Clarendon Street
Boston, MA
Hosted by FUJITSU TEN and Berklee College of Music, the ECLIPSE Masterclass is open to the public and is free of charge. For more information as well as to secure the best seating, please visit http://www.fujitsu-ten.co.jp/english/eclipsemasterclass/index.html
This year’s event will feature performances by the British contemporary cellist and assistant music director for BBC’s The Manchester Passion, Peter Gregson, who is known for his unique performing technique and who has just completed his debut album this month, from which he will play multiple tracks on an electric cello. Gregson will play interactively with Milton Mermikides, professor at Royal Academy of Music in England, who will be managing live electronics including computer programming and manipulation. Another key component in the performance will be the unique 10-speaker ECLIPSE TD 712z system configured for an omnidirectional response that will be enhanced by Trinity Church’s distinctive acoustics, making for a very special musical event.
Monday, March 16, 2009
iCarly Star at the Sharks
Were any of you in line yesterday at the Worcester Sharks' game at the DCU Center to meet "Sam" from iCarly? What was it like (especially if you were one of those people people waiting in line for 3 hours!)!
The fan pictured here waited in line for just 30 minutes (but arrived at the game 2 1/2 hours early!).
What was it like to meet the star? We learned that she always signs her name with a smiley face and sometimes jots down the following handwritten advice: "Be Fierce."
You have to be fierce to stand in line for 3 hours.
By the way, have you ever been to a Sharks' games? They are very family friendly. Tons of loud, fun music and lots of interaction throughout the WHOLE game including dropping prizes from the ceiling, throwing T-shirts, seeing yourself on Smile Cam, making your own Shark jaws to Shark music and so much more.
baystateparent will be there handing out magazines. See our March issue (calendar section for details).
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
March 17: Boston
FIREFIGHTERS TO SERVE UP MEALS TO MAKE-A-WISH KIDS & SUPPORTERS;
KIDS TO TOSS CHANGE INTO ACTUAL “WISHING” WELL
WHAT: Firefighters from the Boylston station will help serve Kid’s Meals to Make-A-Wish youngsters and their families after which guests will toss their spare change into an actual wishing well. The festivities are being undertaken to launch Daily Grill’s new Kid’s Meal menu. 100% of proceeds from the sale of the Kid’s Menu through April 15 as well as ALL funds generated from the wishing well will be donated to Make-A-Wish Foundation of Massachusetts. (Wishing Well will carry the theme, “Change Is Good” with the message that despite challenging economic times, it’s important we to continue to give – even small change can make a difference!)
WHEN: TUESDAY, MARCH 17 (St. Patrick’s Day)
10:30 a.m.-- Make-A-Wish kids and families arrive
10:45 a.m. – Firefighters serve Kid’s Meals to guests
11 a.m. -- Make-A-Wish family shares impact of program
11:15 a.m. – Children toss first coins into actual well followed by firefighters and other adults
WHERE: DAILY GRILL (Prudential Center – across from Colonnade Hotel)
105 Huntington Avenue
Boston
WHO: * Make-A-Wish families
* Make-A-Wish
* 5 Firefighters from Boylston station
* Daily Grill Exec Chef Daniel Greenough
* Event Coordinator Frank Groff
* Make-A-Wish Foundation of Massachusetts grants the wishes of children with life-threatening medical conditions to enrich the human experience with hope, strength and joy. Since 1984, more than 4,000 wishes have been granted for children residing in Massachusetts. In 2009, the Make-A-Wish Foundation of Massachusetts is working to grant the wishes of more than 350 children statewide. For more information, about the Make-A-Wish Foundation of Massachusetts, please visit www.mass.wish.org or call
(617) 367-2669.
* Daily Grills specialize in serving classic American fare at accessible prices in an atmosphere reminiscent of a traditional, upscale New York City grill. The popularity of the concept has resulted in 24 locations in eight states. For more information, visit www.dailygrill.com.
KIDS TO TOSS CHANGE INTO ACTUAL “WISHING” WELL
WHAT: Firefighters from the Boylston station will help serve Kid’s Meals to Make-A-Wish youngsters and their families after which guests will toss their spare change into an actual wishing well. The festivities are being undertaken to launch Daily Grill’s new Kid’s Meal menu. 100% of proceeds from the sale of the Kid’s Menu through April 15 as well as ALL funds generated from the wishing well will be donated to Make-A-Wish Foundation of Massachusetts. (Wishing Well will carry the theme, “Change Is Good” with the message that despite challenging economic times, it’s important we to continue to give – even small change can make a difference!)
WHEN: TUESDAY, MARCH 17 (St. Patrick’s Day)
10:30 a.m.-- Make-A-Wish kids and families arrive
10:45 a.m. – Firefighters serve Kid’s Meals to guests
11 a.m. -- Make-A-Wish family shares impact of program
11:15 a.m. – Children toss first coins into actual well followed by firefighters and other adults
WHERE: DAILY GRILL (Prudential Center – across from Colonnade Hotel)
105 Huntington Avenue
Boston
WHO: * Make-A-Wish families
* Make-A-Wish
* 5 Firefighters from Boylston station
* Daily Grill Exec Chef Daniel Greenough
* Event Coordinator Frank Groff
* Make-A-Wish Foundation of Massachusetts grants the wishes of children with life-threatening medical conditions to enrich the human experience with hope, strength and joy. Since 1984, more than 4,000 wishes have been granted for children residing in Massachusetts. In 2009, the Make-A-Wish Foundation of Massachusetts is working to grant the wishes of more than 350 children statewide. For more information, about the Make-A-Wish Foundation of Massachusetts, please visit www.mass.wish.org or call
(617) 367-2669.
* Daily Grills specialize in serving classic American fare at accessible prices in an atmosphere reminiscent of a traditional, upscale New York City grill. The popularity of the concept has resulted in 24 locations in eight states. For more information, visit www.dailygrill.com.
Child Safety Open House: March 14 in Bellingham
Fingerprinting, DARE, K-9 Demonstrations and More
USMMA to Host a Child Safety Open House on March 14th
DATELINE: BELLINGHAM , FRANKLIN , MILFORD AND SUDBURY , MA …
United States Mixed Martial Arts (USMMA) in Bellingham , MA will host a Child Safety Open House on Saturday, March 14th from 12 to 4 p.m. at their studio located at 316 Hartford Avenue .
This event is free and all are welcome to attend.
USMMA’s Child Safety Open House is a child safety and protection event and a number of activities will be held throughout the afternoon:
· The Milford Police Department (the main sponsor of this event) will be on-site to provide parents with FBI quality fingerprints of their children.
· The Franklin Police Department’s DARE (Drug Abuse Resistance Education) officers will be on-site to provide information and talk with parents and kids.
· Sudbury and Bellingham Police Departments’ K-9 Units will give demonstrations.
· USMMA will give Mixed Martial Arts self-defense demonstrations.
To round out the event, the Boys and Girls Scouts will have an information table and there will be face-painting, raffles, prizes and delectable refreshments courtesy of Whole Foods.
“Fingerprinting is the best way for parents to obtain identification information for their children which can be used to turn over to authorities anywhere in the world to aid in the event of a missing child investigation. When there’s an emergency, having that information at your fingertips is essential,” noted Tom Hafers, owner of USMMA.
He continued, “This event is designed to empower families with specific information regarding child safety and protection. We’re committed to helping families and very fortunate to have the Milford , Franklin , Sudbury and Bellingham Police Departments involved in this very special event.”
About USMMA
USMMA focuses on elevating the physical and spiritual well being of students through Mixed Martial Arts and Yoga. Classes offered include Strength & Conditioning; Brazilian Jiu Jitsu; Thai Boxing; Cardio Thai Boxing; Wrestling; Cardio and Open Mat; Kids Mixed Martial Arts; Pilates; Power Yoga and Deep Flow Yoga.
USMMA’s state of the art, 4,000 square foot training facility is complete with a 2,000 square foot padded MMA training floor equipped with heavy bags and conditioning equipment, a 1,500 square foot yoga studio, locker rooms, showers and a juice bar. USMMA is located at 316 Hartford Avenue in Bellingham . For more information, call 508-966-5006 or visit their website at www.usmma.org.
USMMA to Host a Child Safety Open House on March 14th
DATELINE: BELLINGHAM , FRANKLIN , MILFORD AND SUDBURY , MA …
United States Mixed Martial Arts (USMMA) in Bellingham , MA will host a Child Safety Open House on Saturday, March 14th from 12 to 4 p.m. at their studio located at 316 Hartford Avenue .
This event is free and all are welcome to attend.
USMMA’s Child Safety Open House is a child safety and protection event and a number of activities will be held throughout the afternoon:
· The Milford Police Department (the main sponsor of this event) will be on-site to provide parents with FBI quality fingerprints of their children.
· The Franklin Police Department’s DARE (Drug Abuse Resistance Education) officers will be on-site to provide information and talk with parents and kids.
· Sudbury and Bellingham Police Departments’ K-9 Units will give demonstrations.
· USMMA will give Mixed Martial Arts self-defense demonstrations.
To round out the event, the Boys and Girls Scouts will have an information table and there will be face-painting, raffles, prizes and delectable refreshments courtesy of Whole Foods.
“Fingerprinting is the best way for parents to obtain identification information for their children which can be used to turn over to authorities anywhere in the world to aid in the event of a missing child investigation. When there’s an emergency, having that information at your fingertips is essential,” noted Tom Hafers, owner of USMMA.
He continued, “This event is designed to empower families with specific information regarding child safety and protection. We’re committed to helping families and very fortunate to have the Milford , Franklin , Sudbury and Bellingham Police Departments involved in this very special event.”
About USMMA
USMMA focuses on elevating the physical and spiritual well being of students through Mixed Martial Arts and Yoga. Classes offered include Strength & Conditioning; Brazilian Jiu Jitsu; Thai Boxing; Cardio Thai Boxing; Wrestling; Cardio and Open Mat; Kids Mixed Martial Arts; Pilates; Power Yoga and Deep Flow Yoga.
USMMA’s state of the art, 4,000 square foot training facility is complete with a 2,000 square foot padded MMA training floor equipped with heavy bags and conditioning equipment, a 1,500 square foot yoga studio, locker rooms, showers and a juice bar. USMMA is located at 316 Hartford Avenue in Bellingham . For more information, call 508-966-5006 or visit their website at www.usmma.org.
Harlem Wizards in Ashland, March 21 2009
The Ashland K-12 PTO will be sponsoring the Harlem Wizards on Saturday, March 21st at 7PM.
The Harlem Wizards, founded in 1962, are one of the greatest basketball show-team organizations to ever "lace it up and let 'em fly!" They will bring their exciting performance to Ashland High School. Tickets for students and seniors are $8 in advance, $10 at the door. All other tickets are $10 in advance, $12 at the door. Advance tickets may be purchased online at http://www.ashlandpto.com/; all proceeds will benefit the Ashland K-12 PTO.
Kelly Sheridan
VP Communications
Ashland K-12 PTO
508-380-6782
The Harlem Wizards, founded in 1962, are one of the greatest basketball show-team organizations to ever "lace it up and let 'em fly!" They will bring their exciting performance to Ashland High School. Tickets for students and seniors are $8 in advance, $10 at the door. All other tickets are $10 in advance, $12 at the door. Advance tickets may be purchased online at http://www.ashlandpto.com/; all proceeds will benefit the Ashland K-12 PTO.
Kelly Sheridan
VP Communications
Ashland K-12 PTO
508-380-6782
The Grafton Fine Arts & Music Festival: March 27 - 29
Month of event: March
Date of Event March 27-29
Time of event: Fri 7-9PM, Sat 11-6, Sun 12-5
Locations:
The Grafton Municipal Center Gymnasium; in Grafton off of 140 (between High School and Police Station)
The Grafton Fine Arts and Music Festival, a three-day celebration of art and music, features local artists (judged show), local music and dance performances, and workshops for children and adults.
Cost of Event:
Very affordable for families at $3/adult, $2/children 5+, free for children 4 and under and for all participating artists.
Phone number of event: (508) 887-9969
E-mail address of event: fmorrisson@charter.net
Web site for event: www.graftonartsfestival.org
This is one of the most affordable family events around - and a great celebration of the arts!
Date of Event March 27-29
Time of event: Fri 7-9PM, Sat 11-6, Sun 12-5
Locations:
The Grafton Municipal Center Gymnasium; in Grafton off of 140 (between High School and Police Station)
The Grafton Fine Arts and Music Festival, a three-day celebration of art and music, features local artists (judged show), local music and dance performances, and workshops for children and adults.
Cost of Event:
Very affordable for families at $3/adult, $2/children 5+, free for children 4 and under and for all participating artists.
Phone number of event: (508) 887-9969
E-mail address of event: fmorrisson@charter.net
Web site for event: www.graftonartsfestival.org
This is one of the most affordable family events around - and a great celebration of the arts!
March 28 & 29 Illusion & Beyond Show in Hudson
The following release has not been edited by baystateparent.
Prepare to Be Amazed!!
Illusion & Beyond - Toby Travis is a multi-talented performer blending the arts of illusion, drama, music, humor, and audience participation to present an evening of mind-boggling and intriguing entertainment.
As a dynamic and compelling speaker, Toby Travis goes beyond just entertainment to provide hope and inspiration. According to the Family Life Journal his show is “A must see event for the entire family.” Check out Toby’s website at: tobytravis.com for more information about Toby and his performances.
SHOW TIMES: March 28th@ 6:30pm and March 29th@5pm
LOCATION: Held at Grace Baptist Auditorium-353 River Rd. Hudson
TICKET PRICE: $7 in advance, $10 at the door, buy 2 get 1 FREE.
MORE INFO & TICKETS: www.gracehudson.org/Amazed or 978-562-8550 ext. 103
Prepare to Be Amazed!!
Illusion & Beyond - Toby Travis is a multi-talented performer blending the arts of illusion, drama, music, humor, and audience participation to present an evening of mind-boggling and intriguing entertainment.
As a dynamic and compelling speaker, Toby Travis goes beyond just entertainment to provide hope and inspiration. According to the Family Life Journal his show is “A must see event for the entire family.” Check out Toby’s website at: tobytravis.com for more information about Toby and his performances.
SHOW TIMES: March 28th@ 6:30pm and March 29th@5pm
LOCATION: Held at Grace Baptist Auditorium-353 River Rd. Hudson
TICKET PRICE: $7 in advance, $10 at the door, buy 2 get 1 FREE.
MORE INFO & TICKETS: www.gracehudson.org/Amazed or 978-562-8550 ext. 103
March 18: Free Student Concert in Ashland
Performers Welcome!
The Ashland Student Concert Series will take place on Wednesday, March 18, 2009 at 5 p.m. at the Ashland Public Library, 66 Front Street, Ashland. This program is free and open to the public, and features young performers from the Metrowest Region.
Refreshments will be provided.
Any students interested in performing in this or future concerts should contact Debra Parker at debra.parker6@verizon.net.
Kelly Sheridan
Communications Chair
Friends of the Ashland Public Library
508-380-6782
The Ashland Student Concert Series will take place on Wednesday, March 18, 2009 at 5 p.m. at the Ashland Public Library, 66 Front Street, Ashland. This program is free and open to the public, and features young performers from the Metrowest Region.
Refreshments will be provided.
Any students interested in performing in this or future concerts should contact Debra Parker at debra.parker6@verizon.net.
Kelly Sheridan
Communications Chair
Friends of the Ashland Public Library
508-380-6782
Win a Free Girl Authority Show for your Town!
GIRL AUTHORITY TO PARTICIPATE IN “DRESS UP 2 CURE”
RETT SYNDROME FUNDRAISER
TEAM TO WIN GIRL AUTHORITY CONCERT AT SCHOOL
Burlington, MA - Boston-based tween queens Girl Authority will participate in “Dress Up 2 Cure,” a national fundraiser for Rett Syndrome, an autism spectrum disorder that predominantly affects young girls. The GA girls have been participating in “Dress Up 2 Cure” since 2007.
Girl Power 2 Cure, Inc, a Rett Syndrome non-profit, is overseeing the fundraiser called Dress Up 2 Cure (www.dressup2cure.org) On April Fools Day (April 1), school students dress up in silly costumes and bring in $1 or host a fun event, then submit a video to the site, along with how much money they raised. The school which has the most participants, most money raised, and the most creative ideas and video will win a GA show in their town (funded by Girl Power 2 Cure, Inc.).
Check out Girl Authority’s Dress Up 2 Cure video here: http://www.dressup2cure.org/contest.
Victims of the neurological disorder, Rett Syndrome, are unable to speak, use their hands or move normally. Many suffer from uncontrollable seizures and pain. The event was founded by Ingrid Harding, whose daughter has Rett Syndrome, with a mission of empowering girls to benefit their peers. The goals: to educate/involve them with the special-needs community and provide innovative tools and information to Rett Syndrome families.
Girl Authority is a group of girls (ages 10-15) who go to school, are Girl Scouts, cheerlead, play sports, play instruments, have fun sleepover parties and…just happen to make hit records in their spare time. The girls will perform fun-infused cover songs that kids and parents will love, as well as all-new original material full of positive messages. Intricate dance choreography and fashion-forward outfits add to the spectacle that is a Girl Authority concert. Come ready to dance and sing along to favorite hits like “Life is a Highway,” “Girls Just Want to Have Fun,” and “We are Family.”
Their latest CD Road Trip is a fun collection of original songs and classic covers offering family-friendly musical fare aimed toward and performed by tweens.
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www.girlauthority.com
RETT SYNDROME FUNDRAISER
TEAM TO WIN GIRL AUTHORITY CONCERT AT SCHOOL
Burlington, MA - Boston-based tween queens Girl Authority will participate in “Dress Up 2 Cure,” a national fundraiser for Rett Syndrome, an autism spectrum disorder that predominantly affects young girls. The GA girls have been participating in “Dress Up 2 Cure” since 2007.
Girl Power 2 Cure, Inc, a Rett Syndrome non-profit, is overseeing the fundraiser called Dress Up 2 Cure (www.dressup2cure.org) On April Fools Day (April 1), school students dress up in silly costumes and bring in $1 or host a fun event, then submit a video to the site, along with how much money they raised. The school which has the most participants, most money raised, and the most creative ideas and video will win a GA show in their town (funded by Girl Power 2 Cure, Inc.).
Check out Girl Authority’s Dress Up 2 Cure video here: http://www.dressup2cure.org/contest.
Victims of the neurological disorder, Rett Syndrome, are unable to speak, use their hands or move normally. Many suffer from uncontrollable seizures and pain. The event was founded by Ingrid Harding, whose daughter has Rett Syndrome, with a mission of empowering girls to benefit their peers. The goals: to educate/involve them with the special-needs community and provide innovative tools and information to Rett Syndrome families.
Girl Authority is a group of girls (ages 10-15) who go to school, are Girl Scouts, cheerlead, play sports, play instruments, have fun sleepover parties and…just happen to make hit records in their spare time. The girls will perform fun-infused cover songs that kids and parents will love, as well as all-new original material full of positive messages. Intricate dance choreography and fashion-forward outfits add to the spectacle that is a Girl Authority concert. Come ready to dance and sing along to favorite hits like “Life is a Highway,” “Girls Just Want to Have Fun,” and “We are Family.”
Their latest CD Road Trip is a fun collection of original songs and classic covers offering family-friendly musical fare aimed toward and performed by tweens.
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www.girlauthority.com
Monday, March 9, 2009
Closet Facelift Entries
The baystateparent "WIN A CLOSET FACELIFT WITH A TOP BOSTON STYLIST" is now closed for entries. We will be picking the winner this week.
Alisa Neely, voted Best of Boston 2007: Personal Shopper by Boston Magazine, will be taking an in-depth look into one lucky mom's closet the first week of April. This prize is valued at $375!
The results with photographs as well as anecdotes from some our mom-entries will be featured in our May Mother's Day issue.
Thank you Alisa Neely for partnering with us. Thank you moms for entering. We've got some fabulous moms reading baystateparent. And even if you don't think you are fashionable, you sure are funny and sincere. The hearts of our readers really shined through in your letters and photos.
Stay tuned...
Alisa Neely, voted Best of Boston 2007: Personal Shopper by Boston Magazine, will be taking an in-depth look into one lucky mom's closet the first week of April. This prize is valued at $375!
The results with photographs as well as anecdotes from some our mom-entries will be featured in our May Mother's Day issue.
Thank you Alisa Neely for partnering with us. Thank you moms for entering. We've got some fabulous moms reading baystateparent. And even if you don't think you are fashionable, you sure are funny and sincere. The hearts of our readers really shined through in your letters and photos.
Stay tuned...
2008 Cover Contest Winner!
baystateparent is proud to announce our 2008 Cover Contest Winner
Evan Taylor, age 4, of Worcester!
Thank you to all of the families who entered this year's contest. We are
thrilled to feature all of the finalists in an upcoming issue (possibly May 2009) with Evan on our cover.
Congratulations Evan and to the Taylor family!
Evan Taylor, age 4, of Worcester!
Thank you to all of the families who entered this year's contest. We are
thrilled to feature all of the finalists in an upcoming issue (possibly May 2009) with Evan on our cover.
Congratulations Evan and to the Taylor family!
Jazzed!
Paula Monette Ethier, Creative Director
Gareth Charter, Publisher
Carrie Wattu, Editor
baystateparent just returned from a parenting publications conference in New Orleans with regional parenting magazines from all over the United States.
In addition to networking and exchanging ideas and resources, baystateparent competed with other publications in various design and editorial categories for the year 2008 and were judged by professionals from the University of Missouri’s School of Journalism. We're proud to announce...
baystateparent Wins 11 National Design and Editorial Awards
from Parenting Publications of America
Winners of the 11 awards for baystateparent were Paula Monette Ethier, creative director; Steven King, voted as New England’s photographer of the year by the New England Press Association, Paula Swift, award-winning photographer; Carrie Wattu, editor
5 EDITORIAL AWARDS
1 BRONZE for cover writing by Carrie Wattu
1 SILVER for Carrie Wattu’s headlines
3 GOLD for Carrie Wattu’s editor’s note, travel story on NYC and profile on Monica Jorge
6 DESIGN AWARDS
3 BRONZE: Paula Ethier and Steven King’s January 2008 cover; Paula Ethier and Steve King’s “Moms Without Limbs,” and Paula Monette Ethier’s Adoption Guide November 2008.
1 SILVER: Back –to-School color layout August 2008 by Paula Ethier
2 GOLD: Paula Ethier and Paula Swifts’s October 2008 Think Pink Cover and Paula Ethier and Steve King’s Coming of Age Fashions, May 2008.
Cover Writing
Bronze: Bay State Parent; Carrie Wattu, editor
The writer of the cover lines uses an effective style that separates this magazine from others – she highlights each topic with a larger typeface and writes the rest of the cover line to make both sizes work together. Great work.
Column: Publisher’s/Editor’s Note
Gold: Bay State Parent; Carrie Wattu, editor
Both of these columns overflow with a strong writer’s voice. The strong phrasing compels readers to stick around from the lede to the end. In one of the columns, the writer takes us straight into the life of a mother who lost all four limbs to a rare infection. Excellent legwork gathering quotes and the details that show readers how the mother’s spirit remains strong, despite her physical condition.
Headlines
Silver: Bay State Parent; Carrie Wattu, editor
Consistently solid headlines with a clear reflection of the story content, including “The Buzz on Energy Drinks” and “Worried about your anxious kid?” Readable headlines draw attention to stories without being a distraction.
Travel Feature
Gold: Bay State Parent; “Plan an unforgettable mother-daughter trip to New York City”; Carrie Wattu, editor
It’s hard to write about a place like New York City and generate new excitement and interest. But this author took on that challenge by creating an engaging and visual personal narrative that included visual details, keen description, and helpful information. Even if you’ve been a hundred times, you’ll want to go again.
Profiles
Gold: Bay State Parent, “Mom Without Limbs/Without Limits”; Carrie Wattu, editor; Steven King, photographer; Paula Ethier, creative director
This is a heartwarming, remarkable story about a woman who literally gave up her arms and legs for her children following C-section complications. Wattu dramatically describes Monica Jorge’s ordeal, as well as the day-to-day challenges she faces as a parent with disabilities. Fascinating subject matter, well-written story.
Front Cover/Newsprint: Original Photo
Bronze: Bay State Parent; “January 2008”; Paula Monette Ethier, Steven King
The boy’s face and the cover design make this entry a winner. His face stands out because of the dark clothing and background. The text is balanced around the edges, on his dark jacket. Colors are subdued, but harmonious.
Gold: Bay State Parent; “October 2008”; Paula Monette Ethier, Paula Swift
The clean, simple photograph will draw attention, and the triangle formed with the hands will keep viewers’ eyes in the photograph. The theme of the issue is clear because of the pink clothing and typography.
Interior Photography (Original)
Bronze: Bay State Parent; “Mom Without Limbs/Without Limits”; Paula Monette Ethier
The large, intimate portraits of the parents with their child sets the tone immediately. This is followed by two smaller, natural moments. This story could be sad, but the images and layout lift the mood and show the joy and love in the family.
Gold: Bay State Parent; “Coming of Age Fashions”; Paula Monette Ethier, Steven King
This is an original story idea with a fresh photographic execution. The illustrations are playful, tasteful and technically well done. They are played well and have ample white space. The use of simple props helps create a fun, youthful mood. Kudos to this team!
Feature Layout/Color
Silver: Bay State Parent; “Brrrrrring… Woke Up, Got out of Bed”; Paula Monette Ethier
This was a fun design done the old-fashioned way – build the props yourself instead of going for clip art and Photoshop. The end result is images you just can’t capture quite as well digitally. A fun rhyme and a comic-panel theme make this an enjoyable design.
Special Section
Bronze: Bay State Parent; “Annual Adoption Guide”; Paula Monette Ethier
This guide has essential information for parents considering adoption and those who have are foster parents or who have adopted children. The information is presented clearly and display type enhances the stories.
Please visit parentingpublications.org for more information.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
American Girl Fashion Models Wanted in Plymouth
Fashion show producers will once again be holding “American Girl Fashion Show” model tryouts at Plimoth Plantation’s Visitor Center, Wednesday and Thursday, February 18 & 19, from 2 to 4 p.m., as well as an additional date on Saturday, March 7, from 10 a.m. – Noon. There is a $5.00 processing fee for each applicant and all models, who are selected to walk the runway, are required to attend each of the show’s 3 rehearsals. Girls interested in auditioning should ask a parent or guardian to visit www.plimoth.org to download and fill out the necessary forms in advance.
Sun. Feb. 15 Glamour Princess Tea
Miss Emma's Tea
MOMMY & ME
GLAMOUR PRINCESS TEA
Mia Bella Spa
12 Main Street Leominster
Sunday, February 15th 12:00pm and 1:30pm
Enjoy a relaxing manicure or chair massage while your
Little princesses delight in a princess tea party!
Musical games, glamorous updos, glitter tattoos and more…
Princess cookies, fresh fruit and “tea” will be served.
$30 for Mommy, plus one child
$5 for each additional child
RSVP to Debbie at (978) 537-6945
Or email debbie@missemmastea.com
www.missemmastea.com
MOMMY & ME
GLAMOUR PRINCESS TEA
Mia Bella Spa
12 Main Street Leominster
Sunday, February 15th 12:00pm and 1:30pm
Enjoy a relaxing manicure or chair massage while your
Little princesses delight in a princess tea party!
Musical games, glamorous updos, glitter tattoos and more…
Princess cookies, fresh fruit and “tea” will be served.
$30 for Mommy, plus one child
$5 for each additional child
RSVP to Debbie at (978) 537-6945
Or email debbie@missemmastea.com
www.missemmastea.com
Free Hogwarts at Holy Cross on Feb. 21
Just got this cool press release from Holy Cross. Harry Potter lovers, check this out:
Carrie
Science Ambassadors to Host 11th Annual ‘Hogwarts at Holy Cross’
WORCESTER, Mass. — The College of the Holy Cross presents the 11th annual “Hogwarts at Holy Cross” titled “Our World and Beyond” on Saturday, Feb. 21 from 6 – 8 p.m. in the Hogan Campus Center Ballroom. Designed for the children of Worcester, the event will feature hands-on science experiments and a unique and interactive presentation by Holy Cross faculty and students. “Hogwarts at Holy Cross” is free and open to the public.
“Hogwarts is an incredible opportunity for local students to learn about science and for Holy Cross faculty and students to share their excitement for the subject,” explains Elizabeth Morse ’09, co-chair of the Science Ambassadors. “Hogwarts bridges the gaps between many disciplines, from biology to psychology, chemistry to archaeology, so that children can see how important (and fun!) it is when the scientific community works together.”
The event is modeled after the “potions” classes offered at the Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry in the Harry Potter series. This annual event is open to the entire Worcester community and includes innovative hands-on science activities for children in pre-K through grade 8, including extracting DNA from strawberries.
This year, Hogwarts will also feature a creative and interdisciplinary presentation from faculty and students from Holy Cross. “The show will progress from demonstrations about the small units of our world—atoms and molecule —all the way up to the fundamental principles of motion, including the physical phenomena that keep our world in orbit,” says Morse.
For the last eight years, the Science Ambassadors, a group of over 60 Holy Cross students, have been working with local children to develop an interest in the sciences. They put on science shows for children of all ages throughout the year, both at community schools and at Holy Cross. Hogwarts is the largest and most popular of the events.
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The College of the Holy Cross (holycross.edu), located in Worcester, Massachusetts, is among the nation's leading liberal arts institutions. A highly selective, four-year, exclusively undergraduate college of 2,800 students, Holy Cross is renowned for offering a rigorous, personalized education in the Jesuit, Catholic tradition. Since its founding in 1843, Holy Cross has made a positive impact in society by graduating students who distinguish themselves as thoughtful leaders in business, professional and civic life.
Carrie
Science Ambassadors to Host 11th Annual ‘Hogwarts at Holy Cross’
WORCESTER, Mass. — The College of the Holy Cross presents the 11th annual “Hogwarts at Holy Cross” titled “Our World and Beyond” on Saturday, Feb. 21 from 6 – 8 p.m. in the Hogan Campus Center Ballroom. Designed for the children of Worcester, the event will feature hands-on science experiments and a unique and interactive presentation by Holy Cross faculty and students. “Hogwarts at Holy Cross” is free and open to the public.
“Hogwarts is an incredible opportunity for local students to learn about science and for Holy Cross faculty and students to share their excitement for the subject,” explains Elizabeth Morse ’09, co-chair of the Science Ambassadors. “Hogwarts bridges the gaps between many disciplines, from biology to psychology, chemistry to archaeology, so that children can see how important (and fun!) it is when the scientific community works together.”
The event is modeled after the “potions” classes offered at the Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry in the Harry Potter series. This annual event is open to the entire Worcester community and includes innovative hands-on science activities for children in pre-K through grade 8, including extracting DNA from strawberries.
This year, Hogwarts will also feature a creative and interdisciplinary presentation from faculty and students from Holy Cross. “The show will progress from demonstrations about the small units of our world—atoms and molecule —all the way up to the fundamental principles of motion, including the physical phenomena that keep our world in orbit,” says Morse.
For the last eight years, the Science Ambassadors, a group of over 60 Holy Cross students, have been working with local children to develop an interest in the sciences. They put on science shows for children of all ages throughout the year, both at community schools and at Holy Cross. Hogwarts is the largest and most popular of the events.
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The College of the Holy Cross (holycross.edu), located in Worcester, Massachusetts, is among the nation's leading liberal arts institutions. A highly selective, four-year, exclusively undergraduate college of 2,800 students, Holy Cross is renowned for offering a rigorous, personalized education in the Jesuit, Catholic tradition. Since its founding in 1843, Holy Cross has made a positive impact in society by graduating students who distinguish themselves as thoughtful leaders in business, professional and civic life.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
10 Ways to Have Big Fun on a Small Budget
Dr. Robyn J.A. Silverman
We're hearing about it a lot these days. The economy is spiraling down while costs are rising up. People are tightening their belts, staying close to home, and clamping down on extra spending. But does that mean that we have to hang up our fun clothes and wait for time to pass? No way!
Yes, we all know about the old inexpensive pastimes. Read a book. Ride your bike. Go to the park. But it's clear that families are looking for more variety these days. They don't mind passing on costly vacations if they can still have a good time close to home. A parent contacted me through my parenting blog the other day and said, "Dr. Robyn, we're all 'parked out!' What else can we do that doesn't cost a lot of money but is still loads of fun?"
Here are 10 ways to have big fun on a small budget:
1. Have an inside picnic: Make fried chicken and all the fix'ns, if you'd like! Spread out the blanket, play games, and let your imagination go wild. Sometimes simply doing something ordinary, like having a meal together, in a different way, can make the time spent extra fun and enjoyable for everyone.
2. Throw a costume party: Why do all costumes have to go back in the closet after Halloween? Invite your favorite families from around the neighborhood and ask them to dress up. Make it thematic! Be your favorite character from a book! Come as your favorite sports star! Have an "out of this world party" where everyone dresses up as a creature that only exists in their imagination! To keep costs down, make it a potluck and ask every family to bring a yummy dish and their favorite game.
3. Arrange a Family Slumber Party: You might be surprised by how excited your children get when you propose a family sleepover party! Drag in the sleeping bags, soft blankets, and air mattresses and huddle up by the fire. Make popcorn, play games and watch movies. You might even entertain staying up a little later than usual? Yes, you might feel a little stiff in the neck the next morning but when you look back on the day you’ll surely only remember the good times!
4. Build a fort: Another way to get close and have fun is to build a fort in the living room or basement. Such an operation encourages closeness and cooperation. Push together some of your couches and chairs and drape blankets to create a cozy space. Pretend it’s a cave and “explore.” Make up stories and play word games. My brothers and I used to love building and “living in” our basement fort and I still have the fondest memories of that time. I remember that one time, Mom and Dad even let us drag in a little TV inside the fort and watch LoveBoat and Fantasy Island—during which I quickly fell asleep.
5. Connect with a PenPal: The world is so small now with so much technology that it’s easier and easier to connect with others across the world. And remember—there are only 7 degrees of separation between you and many others! Ask your children the type of person they’d like to meet. Then, ask your friends, teachers and neighbors if they have connections with people in that area or in the specified age group. Encourage your children to write letters, ask questions, and send photos. My sister-in-law still has her German pen pal from 5th grade. What an amazing experience for little to no cost at all!
6. Plan a scavenger hunt: Invite the neighbors over to find the treasure in one of your backyards or at a neighborhood family-friendly store! Separate children into teams (each with an adult supervisor) and have each team wear a certain color for easy identification. Write clues that lead the teams around the neighborhood looking for the "treasure." Each neighbor can contribute something to the "pot" (or you can all go into it together) such as baked goods, a cool t-shirt, beaded necklaces or art supplies, a gift card, or whatever other low cost fun item that comes to mind.
7. Volunteer: What a wonderful way to contribute to your community and have fun at the same time! Donate time to the local animal shelter. Teach the children to sing or dance for the women and men at the nursing home in town. Allow the children to help out with after classes that cater to children with special needs. Volunteering gets children out of the house, doing something helpful, and having a great time.
8. Create your own power outage: When the power is out, the family tends to come together. Shut off the lights, the computer and the TV. Spread out a blanket on the floor or huddle up in bed, tell stories, play flashlight or word games, and have a special "power outage picnic."
9. Decorate old clothes: Get out the old jeans and t-shirts and decorate! Use acrylic paints, fabric remnants, stamps, dye, patches and rhinestones. These kinds of projects can breed new interest in forgotten clothes and can offer a different art medium besides paper.
10. Get outside and enjoy! It might be starting to cool down but that doesn't mean we have to stay inside. Go sledding! Have a snowball fight! Create snow sculptures and snow angels. And who can forget the hot cocoa that is a must after rolling around in the cold?
These ideas may not cost a lot of money but they are certainly big on fun. Some might say that these low cost ideas can be even more enjoyable than the expensive trips, costly games, and nights eating out. The important thing is that you are all together and creating memories. Don't forget the camera! Participation in these budget-friendly activities are certain to bring on smiles that should be saved forever in your family scrapbook!
Dr. Robyn Silverman is a child development specialist, success coach, and parenting expert who has won several awards for her tips-based articles. She speaks at conferences and businesses worldwide discussing topics such as creating positive limits for children, raising kids with character, and bringing out your child's inner leader. She also works with individuals and families on making their lives meaningful, successful, and powerful. For more information, please visit www.DrRobynSilverman.com , for coaching go to www.QuickSilverCoaching.com or to take part in her Powerful Parenting Blog, visit http://www.DrRobynsBlog.com. Dr. Robyn lives in Weymouth with her family.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Bonus Calendar Events for Fri., Feb. 6 - Sun., Feb. 8
Check back for bonus school vacation ideas next week!
FREE. Friday, Feb. 6th, Boston Interfaith Youth Mural: Project Joins Jewish, Christian and Muslim Teens. Congregation Dorshei Tzedek, 60 Highland Street, West Newton, MA. 7 p.m. The first public exhibit of the 2009 Boston Interfaith Youth Mural will take place Friday, February 6, 2009 at Congregation Dorshei Tzedek, 60 Highland St., West Newton. A musical Friday evening prayer service will be held from 7:00 to 8:30 p.m. followed by a discussion with members of Jewish, Christian and Muslim groups involved in the Mural Project. Free. 617 965-0330 or dorsheitzedek.org
Feb. 7: Winter Concert and Festival. Newton Cultural Center, Newtonville. 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. Get the family dancing at the 4th Annual Winter Concert & Festival featuring Vanessa Trien! Live music, activities, crafts, bake sale, raffle and a door prize from Exxcel Gymnastics ($300. value) $8 in advance, $10 at the door (children under 1 free) tickets@burrcoop.org or 617.467.5562. All proceeds to benefit Burr Cooperative Nursery School, a non-profit organization. burrcoop.org
Franklin Park Winter Snow Festival Boston – Saturday, February 7th, 1 -4 p.m. Come out and enjoy Franklin Park's winter wonderland! Join Franklin Park Coalition and REI for an afternoon of fun in the snow. We'll have snowshoes and sleds to borrow or bring your own cross-country skis for a tour of the park. Kids can enter the snowperson building contest. Learn to find and identify animal tracks. Warm up in the Golf Clubhouse with hot chocolate and soup. FREE FUN FOR ALL AGES. Meet at the Franklin Park Golf Clubhouse, One Franklin Park Road, Boston. To register or for more information call 617-442-4141 or www.franklinparkcoalition.org.
Sat., Feb. 7: Student Art Show. 44 Depot Street
Uxbridge, MA. 6 - 9 p.m. Located @ The Kensho Ryu Kenpo. Free.
508-278-7193 or therainbowpalette.com
Saturdays, Feb. 7 and 28: Fireproof movie at the Charlton Baptist Church
50 Hammond Hill Road, Charlton. 6 - 8 p.m. Free showing of the recently released movie, "Fireproof." Free child care also provided for infant to 12 year olds. Call ahead at 508.248.4488. charltonbaptist.org
Feb. 7 - 22. The House at Pooh Corner is directed by Molly Martin. Boston Children's Theatreat the Grand Lodge of Mason, 186 Tremont St., Boston. 2 p.m. 12 young actors from the greater Boston area portray Christopher Robin and all his friends: Piglet, Tigger, Kanga, Owl, Roo, Eeyore, Rabbit, and Winnie the Pooh as they do their best to build Eeyore a house before Christopher Robin is taken away to Education!Ticket prices are $18,and $20.
617-424-6634, email info@bostonchildrenstheatre.org, or bostonchildrenstheatre.org.
FREE. Friday, Feb. 6th, Boston Interfaith Youth Mural: Project Joins Jewish, Christian and Muslim Teens. Congregation Dorshei Tzedek, 60 Highland Street, West Newton, MA. 7 p.m. The first public exhibit of the 2009 Boston Interfaith Youth Mural will take place Friday, February 6, 2009 at Congregation Dorshei Tzedek, 60 Highland St., West Newton. A musical Friday evening prayer service will be held from 7:00 to 8:30 p.m. followed by a discussion with members of Jewish, Christian and Muslim groups involved in the Mural Project. Free. 617 965-0330 or dorsheitzedek.org
Feb. 7: Winter Concert and Festival. Newton Cultural Center, Newtonville. 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. Get the family dancing at the 4th Annual Winter Concert & Festival featuring Vanessa Trien! Live music, activities, crafts, bake sale, raffle and a door prize from Exxcel Gymnastics ($300. value) $8 in advance, $10 at the door (children under 1 free) tickets@burrcoop.org or 617.467.5562. All proceeds to benefit Burr Cooperative Nursery School, a non-profit organization. burrcoop.org
Franklin Park Winter Snow Festival Boston – Saturday, February 7th, 1 -4 p.m. Come out and enjoy Franklin Park's winter wonderland! Join Franklin Park Coalition and REI for an afternoon of fun in the snow. We'll have snowshoes and sleds to borrow or bring your own cross-country skis for a tour of the park. Kids can enter the snowperson building contest. Learn to find and identify animal tracks. Warm up in the Golf Clubhouse with hot chocolate and soup. FREE FUN FOR ALL AGES. Meet at the Franklin Park Golf Clubhouse, One Franklin Park Road, Boston. To register or for more information call 617-442-4141 or www.franklinparkcoalition.org.
Sat., Feb. 7: Student Art Show. 44 Depot Street
Uxbridge, MA. 6 - 9 p.m. Located @ The Kensho Ryu Kenpo. Free.
508-278-7193 or therainbowpalette.com
Saturdays, Feb. 7 and 28: Fireproof movie at the Charlton Baptist Church
50 Hammond Hill Road, Charlton. 6 - 8 p.m. Free showing of the recently released movie, "Fireproof." Free child care also provided for infant to 12 year olds. Call ahead at 508.248.4488. charltonbaptist.org
Feb. 7 - 22. The House at Pooh Corner is directed by Molly Martin. Boston Children's Theatreat the Grand Lodge of Mason, 186 Tremont St., Boston. 2 p.m. 12 young actors from the greater Boston area portray Christopher Robin and all his friends: Piglet, Tigger, Kanga, Owl, Roo, Eeyore, Rabbit, and Winnie the Pooh as they do their best to build Eeyore a house before Christopher Robin is taken away to Education!Ticket prices are $18,and $20.
617-424-6634, email info@bostonchildrenstheatre.org, or bostonchildrenstheatre.org.
Smell the Flowers in Winter! Feb. 5 - 8
FYI: Might be fun for a date or night out with the girls!
Here's a press release from Tower Hill Botanical Gardens and the Worcester Art Musuem.
7th ANNUAL FLORA IN WINTER, AN ART AND FLORAL EXTRAVAGANZA
Thursday, February 5th through Sunday, February 8th
at
Tower Hill Botanic Garden
AND
The Worcester Art Museum
BOYLSTON and WORCESTER, Mass.-In the clutch of winter, two Central Massachusetts cultural institutions collaborate on an exhibition of fresh floral arrangements and artistic masterworks that conjure the sights and scents of a warmer climate.
Flora in Winter, on view Thursday through Sunday, February 5-8,features fresh floral arrangements interpreting works of art at the Worcester Art Museum (55 Salisbury St, Worcester) and "Romantic Celebrations of the World" at Tower Hill Botanic Garden (11 French Drive, Boylston). Garden club members and floral designers from throughout Central New England have volunteered to create the arrangements. Visitors can admire gorgeous arrangements in the Worcester Art Museum's galleries and in the Education & Visitors Center at Tower Hill, as well as floral displays sponsored by area florists to adorn public spaces. Guided tours at each location will be offered several times daily. Special events celebrating Flora in Winter will be held at each institution throughout the period.
At Tower Hill Botanic Garden, celebrate "Romantic Celebrations of the World" as the inspiration for arrangements displayed in Tower Hill's Main Entry, Alice Milton Gallery and Fern Gallery, adjacent to the lush subtropical blooms and greenery in the Orangerie. Enjoy stunning floral interpretations of international destinations and events renowned for their romantic connections. Flora in Winter will be a celebration of life through art, music, and the creative expression of love through the artistry of flowers. Romance may be interpreted as an intense feeling for a person, place, or time, in literature or music, from anywhere around the world. Talented floral designers will reach the heights of artistic expression in this one-of-a-kind show.
Tower Hill enhances the mood and atmosphere of Flora in Winter with a Candlelight Concert featuring the heart-warming music of Stephen Sondheim at 7:30 p.m. on Friday, February 6, with performers from the Boston Conservatory of Music. Tickets are $30 nonmembers and $25 for members of either Tower Hill or the Worcester Art Museum. Twigs Café will provide complimentary hors d'oeuvre. Call Tower Hill at 508.869.6111 ext. 135 for reservations.
Opening Hours for Flora in Winter:
Tower Hill Botanic Garden:
10am-5pm daily, reopening at 6:30 p.m. on Friday evening for the Sondheim Concert
Worcester Art Museum:
Thursday, February 5: 11am-5pm, The Museum reopens from 5:30-8pm for Flora Euphoria
Friday, February 6: 11am-8pm
Saturday, February 7: 10am-8pm*
Sunday, February 8: 11am-5pm
*There will be no free admission at the Worcester Art Museum Saturday morning, February 7, except for Worcester Art Museum Members. Free Saturday mornings from 10am-noon will resume following Flora in Winter.
Regular admission fees apply at each institution. Admission is free to members of that institution. For others, Worcester Art Museum admission is $10 adults, $8 senior citizens and full-time students with ID, and free for youth 17 and under. Tower Hill admission is $10 adults, $7 seniors ages 65 and older, $5 for youth ages 6-18. Admission is free for children under 6.
Public tours will also be held at Tower Hill at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday and Friday, and on Saturday & Sunday, at 1 and 3 p.m. each day. Tours are included with the price of admission.
For private tours for groups of 10 or more, please call for more information: Worcester Art Museum 508.799.4406 ext. 3130; Tower Hill Botanic Garden 508.869.6111 ext. 125.
Here's a press release from Tower Hill Botanical Gardens and the Worcester Art Musuem.
7th ANNUAL FLORA IN WINTER, AN ART AND FLORAL EXTRAVAGANZA
Thursday, February 5th through Sunday, February 8th
at
Tower Hill Botanic Garden
AND
The Worcester Art Museum
BOYLSTON and WORCESTER, Mass.-In the clutch of winter, two Central Massachusetts cultural institutions collaborate on an exhibition of fresh floral arrangements and artistic masterworks that conjure the sights and scents of a warmer climate.
Flora in Winter, on view Thursday through Sunday, February 5-8,features fresh floral arrangements interpreting works of art at the Worcester Art Museum (55 Salisbury St, Worcester) and "Romantic Celebrations of the World" at Tower Hill Botanic Garden (11 French Drive, Boylston). Garden club members and floral designers from throughout Central New England have volunteered to create the arrangements. Visitors can admire gorgeous arrangements in the Worcester Art Museum's galleries and in the Education & Visitors Center at Tower Hill, as well as floral displays sponsored by area florists to adorn public spaces. Guided tours at each location will be offered several times daily. Special events celebrating Flora in Winter will be held at each institution throughout the period.
At Tower Hill Botanic Garden, celebrate "Romantic Celebrations of the World" as the inspiration for arrangements displayed in Tower Hill's Main Entry, Alice Milton Gallery and Fern Gallery, adjacent to the lush subtropical blooms and greenery in the Orangerie. Enjoy stunning floral interpretations of international destinations and events renowned for their romantic connections. Flora in Winter will be a celebration of life through art, music, and the creative expression of love through the artistry of flowers. Romance may be interpreted as an intense feeling for a person, place, or time, in literature or music, from anywhere around the world. Talented floral designers will reach the heights of artistic expression in this one-of-a-kind show.
Tower Hill enhances the mood and atmosphere of Flora in Winter with a Candlelight Concert featuring the heart-warming music of Stephen Sondheim at 7:30 p.m. on Friday, February 6, with performers from the Boston Conservatory of Music. Tickets are $30 nonmembers and $25 for members of either Tower Hill or the Worcester Art Museum. Twigs Café will provide complimentary hors d'oeuvre. Call Tower Hill at 508.869.6111 ext. 135 for reservations.
Opening Hours for Flora in Winter:
Tower Hill Botanic Garden:
10am-5pm daily, reopening at 6:30 p.m. on Friday evening for the Sondheim Concert
Worcester Art Museum:
Thursday, February 5: 11am-5pm, The Museum reopens from 5:30-8pm for Flora Euphoria
Friday, February 6: 11am-8pm
Saturday, February 7: 10am-8pm*
Sunday, February 8: 11am-5pm
*There will be no free admission at the Worcester Art Museum Saturday morning, February 7, except for Worcester Art Museum Members. Free Saturday mornings from 10am-noon will resume following Flora in Winter.
Regular admission fees apply at each institution. Admission is free to members of that institution. For others, Worcester Art Museum admission is $10 adults, $8 senior citizens and full-time students with ID, and free for youth 17 and under. Tower Hill admission is $10 adults, $7 seniors ages 65 and older, $5 for youth ages 6-18. Admission is free for children under 6.
Public tours will also be held at Tower Hill at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday and Friday, and on Saturday & Sunday, at 1 and 3 p.m. each day. Tours are included with the price of admission.
For private tours for groups of 10 or more, please call for more information: Worcester Art Museum 508.799.4406 ext. 3130; Tower Hill Botanic Garden 508.869.6111 ext. 125.
Bonus Calendar Events for Sat., Jan. 31st
The following family fun events are not listed in our January print issue but are available to you on our blog as a bonus! Keep in mind: All listings are posted as they were sent to baystateparent. They are not edited. Please contact each event directly before attending and to confirm details.
Have fun!
Saturday, January 31st – Winter Volunteer Day in Franklin Park – 10 a.m. – Noon. This is a great time of year to clear invasive plants that are smothering young native trees in Franklin Park’s forest. Dress warmly (layers is best, you will warm up), shiny, nylon coats can get caught on branches, heavy cotton, fleece, or wool won’t be damaged. We’ll have old leather palm work gloves and clippers, but bring some if you have them at home. There’ll be hot chocolate and good cheer in abundance, all ages and abilities welcome. Meet at Valley Gates Parking Lot midway along the main Franklin Park Road. For more info and directions: www.franklinparkcoalition.org or 617-442-4141.
Sat., Jan. 31: Tropical Forest. Franklin Park Zoo, One Franklin Park Rd., Boston. 11 a.m. - 12 p.m. Escape the winter chill and bring your little ones down to the always-balmy Tropical Forest for family entertainment provided by our professionalchildren’s entertainer during our Saturday Sing-a-Longs! Wildly popular children’s entertainer, Su Eaton, will perform every Saturday in January and March. These events will be held in the Hippo Theater at Franklin Park Zoo and are free with general Zoo admission. Saturday Sing-a-Longs will be held January 31 and March 7, 14, 21 and 28. 617-541-5466 or franklinparkzoo.org
Sat., Jan. 31: Copicut Woods, Indian Town Rd., Fall River. 9 - 11 a.m. While a few animals do head south or hibernate away the winter months, most remian in New England and are active all year. Join the Trustees of Reservations along with Bill Sampson, senior keeper at the Buttinwood Park Zoo, to learn the art of tracking animals in winter. Free. 508-679-2115x11, email bioreserve@ttor.org, or visit www.thetrustees.org
Sat., Jan. 31: A “Curious George” Party. South Shore Natural Science Center, Norwell. 10 - 11:30 a.m. Ages 3+. Celebrate the many adventures of Curious George – without getting into too much mischief. After stories, crafts and games we’ll enjoy a snack and just “monkey around”! Pre-registration and payment requested. $10 Member per parent/child pair with a maximum of $20 per family$13 Non- member per parent/ child pair with a maximum of $26 per family. The Center also has ongoing Drop- In Programs (Free with paid admission) such as: Feed the Animals: Saturdays and Monday Holidays at 10 a.m.; Meet an Animal: Saturdays and Monday Holidays at 2 p.m.; Tales from the Wild: Every Friday 10:30 -11 a.m.; and Join the naturalist for nature stories and tales. Please call to register.781-659-2559 x 203 or email jazanow@ssnsc.org
Good Deeds at NEADS in Princeton
While this isn't a family fun event, NEADS in Princeton is a great place to bring kids who love dogs!
Sat., Jan. 31: The Worcester County NEADS Lions has teamed up with the American Red Cross to sponsor a Blood Drive on Saturday, January 31, 2009. It will take place at the NEADS offices at 305 Redemption Rock Trail South (Rt. 140), Princeton, MA, from 9 a.m. until 2 p.m. and will be open to the public. The Lion’s Sightmobile will also be available for visiting at the NEADS facility. All blood donors will receive a FREE Pound of Dunkin Donuts Coffee! Anyone age 17 or older, who is in good health, who weighs 110 pounds or more, and who has not given blood in the last 56 days is eligible to donate. Please be prepared to show photo identification to a Red Cross volunteer.For more information about this event -- or to make an appointment for any Red Cross blood drive -- please call 1-800 GIVE LIFE (800-448-3543). Walk-in donors are also welcome.
Have fun!
Saturday, January 31st – Winter Volunteer Day in Franklin Park – 10 a.m. – Noon. This is a great time of year to clear invasive plants that are smothering young native trees in Franklin Park’s forest. Dress warmly (layers is best, you will warm up), shiny, nylon coats can get caught on branches, heavy cotton, fleece, or wool won’t be damaged. We’ll have old leather palm work gloves and clippers, but bring some if you have them at home. There’ll be hot chocolate and good cheer in abundance, all ages and abilities welcome. Meet at Valley Gates Parking Lot midway along the main Franklin Park Road. For more info and directions: www.franklinparkcoalition.org or 617-442-4141.
Sat., Jan. 31: Tropical Forest. Franklin Park Zoo, One Franklin Park Rd., Boston. 11 a.m. - 12 p.m. Escape the winter chill and bring your little ones down to the always-balmy Tropical Forest for family entertainment provided by our professionalchildren’s entertainer during our Saturday Sing-a-Longs! Wildly popular children’s entertainer, Su Eaton, will perform every Saturday in January and March. These events will be held in the Hippo Theater at Franklin Park Zoo and are free with general Zoo admission. Saturday Sing-a-Longs will be held January 31 and March 7, 14, 21 and 28. 617-541-5466 or franklinparkzoo.org
Sat., Jan. 31: Copicut Woods, Indian Town Rd., Fall River. 9 - 11 a.m. While a few animals do head south or hibernate away the winter months, most remian in New England and are active all year. Join the Trustees of Reservations along with Bill Sampson, senior keeper at the Buttinwood Park Zoo, to learn the art of tracking animals in winter. Free. 508-679-2115x11, email bioreserve@ttor.org, or visit www.thetrustees.org
Sat., Jan. 31: A “Curious George” Party. South Shore Natural Science Center, Norwell. 10 - 11:30 a.m. Ages 3+. Celebrate the many adventures of Curious George – without getting into too much mischief. After stories, crafts and games we’ll enjoy a snack and just “monkey around”! Pre-registration and payment requested. $10 Member per parent/child pair with a maximum of $20 per family$13 Non- member per parent/ child pair with a maximum of $26 per family. The Center also has ongoing Drop- In Programs (Free with paid admission) such as: Feed the Animals: Saturdays and Monday Holidays at 10 a.m.; Meet an Animal: Saturdays and Monday Holidays at 2 p.m.; Tales from the Wild: Every Friday 10:30 -11 a.m.; and Join the naturalist for nature stories and tales. Please call to register.781-659-2559 x 203 or email jazanow@ssnsc.org
Good Deeds at NEADS in Princeton
While this isn't a family fun event, NEADS in Princeton is a great place to bring kids who love dogs!
Sat., Jan. 31: The Worcester County NEADS Lions has teamed up with the American Red Cross to sponsor a Blood Drive on Saturday, January 31, 2009. It will take place at the NEADS offices at 305 Redemption Rock Trail South (Rt. 140), Princeton, MA, from 9 a.m. until 2 p.m. and will be open to the public. The Lion’s Sightmobile will also be available for visiting at the NEADS facility. All blood donors will receive a FREE Pound of Dunkin Donuts Coffee! Anyone age 17 or older, who is in good health, who weighs 110 pounds or more, and who has not given blood in the last 56 days is eligible to donate. Please be prepared to show photo identification to a Red Cross volunteer.For more information about this event -- or to make an appointment for any Red Cross blood drive -- please call 1-800 GIVE LIFE (800-448-3543). Walk-in donors are also welcome.
Rashes from Carter's "Tag-less" Labels
CPSC Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC and Carter's Advise Parents of Rashes Associated with Heat Transferred, or "Tag-less," Labels
WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) and Carter's, Inc., of Atlanta, Georgia, are advising parents and caregivers that they have received reports that a small percentage of babies and infants have developed rashes on the upper back after wearing Carter's clothing with heat-transferred, or "tag-less," labels.
This advisory applies to Carter's Fall 2007 product line. The Fall 2007 line utilizes a label on the inside back of the garment that has a raised surface with a solid, rather than a stenciled, background. This advisory does not apply to previous and current product lines, which utilize labels with stenciled backgrounds.
The garments, which were made in various countries, were sold at Carter's own retail stores and at department and national chain stores.
If your child develops a rash on the upper back after wearing garments that have a "tag-less" label with a solid background, you should stop using these garments. If the rash persists or worsens, you should contact your pediatrician. For additional information, visit Carter's website at http://www.carters.com/corporate/tagless_message.aspx, contact Carter's toll free at 1-888-282-4674 or by email at contactus@carters.com
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
2009 Cover Contest Winners!
Our 2009 Cover Contest Winners will be announced in our upcoming February issue. Be sure to pick up a copy next week to see the finalists.
Thank you to everyone who entered, and enjoy your beautiful kids!
Best,
Carrie Wattu
editor@baystateparent.com
Thank you to everyone who entered, and enjoy your beautiful kids!
Best,
Carrie Wattu
editor@baystateparent.com
Meet John Owen and His Family
Tony & Jen Dumm sent me this letter from North Royalton , Ohio. Initially, I read it because I was curious to see if they were Massachusetts' parents. I read on because they had that gift where you feel as if you know the family.
I fell in love with the Dumms. I so could relate when Jen talked about lying down in bed with the kids at night. And I could relate when she talked about the innocence of her son and the terror that she feels (not because I have a special needs child but because I can only imagine what she goes through).
Their Web site is just as special. They are real, and I get it. I think you will too.
While we don't usually do stories on families outside of Massachusetts, I just had to share this with you.
Check out their Web site. They have the gift!
On being John Owen’s Mom
by Jen Dumm
Ok so my day is most likely like yours – actually, our days start the night before, right? Pack lunches, set the coffee, lay out the kids cloths, double check the homework – then go through the whole AM thing to getting the kids in bed by 8 or 9 pm . I call it crazy mom nuts. But a good crazy mom nuts, ya know?
We have three boys, Rutger (7), John Owen (5) (Owen) and Wade (2), 2 dogs and a very busy life. Usually, when I hear one of the boys ask, as I pass by their room well after bedtime, “Mom, sleep with me please.” Internally, I sigh and think of laundry or dishes – but occasionally, I remember that all that can wait. So tonight it is Owen or J, O, John, J bug, Owen, John Owen, buttercup, many pet names any time of day, he prefers Owen. He is 5. Looking at Owen you see the innocence in his face, the same look you’ve seen in your kids. The look back at you as they run to play, the tears of disappointment, the laughter at a funny joke, the joy of a new puppy, you see that innocence so easily in his face. As I stare at that tonight I cannot believe his little muscles, since birth, have been wasting away inside him. You see, Owen has the most fatal genetic disorder out there, Duchenne’s Muscular Dystrophy (DMD).
Laying there looking at our son, I cannot grasp what his future holds. Today, he is a typical 5 year old; you would see him on the playground with his friends and think nothing of his tad sluggish gate. You would never know that statistics have him wheelchair bound in 5 to 7 years. Everyday tasks for him will be a thing of the past, brushing his teeth, holding a telephone, eating, heck even breathing. Things that he can do now without a thought will be stripped away from him before most of us got our first job!
Owen’s body does not make dystrophin; in short his muscles will not continue to function without it. It is a progressive disease that will slow every muscle in his body to a halt. Laying here looking at his innocent face, he has no clue what challenges are ahead for him. Lucky for Owen, there are many amazing people in the world working hard to find a cure; Parent Project Muscular Dystrophy (www.parentprojectmd.org), The MDA (www.mda.org), Charley’s Fund (www.charleysfund.com) and more. Lucky for us we have Owen and we have the power of hope and faith.
Shortly after his diagnosis at age 4, we began John Owen’s Adventure, Inc. Our non-profit raises awareness of DMD and other childhood illnesses. We live John Owen’s Adventure every day with him; one click of your mouse to www.joainc.org will let you experience his journey! You will see that familiar look of innocence and we will hope that, together, Owen will not lose his before his time.
I fell in love with the Dumms. I so could relate when Jen talked about lying down in bed with the kids at night. And I could relate when she talked about the innocence of her son and the terror that she feels (not because I have a special needs child but because I can only imagine what she goes through).
Their Web site is just as special. They are real, and I get it. I think you will too.
While we don't usually do stories on families outside of Massachusetts, I just had to share this with you.
Check out their Web site. They have the gift!
On being John Owen’s Mom
by Jen Dumm
Ok so my day is most likely like yours – actually, our days start the night before, right? Pack lunches, set the coffee, lay out the kids cloths, double check the homework – then go through the whole AM thing to getting the kids in bed by 8 or 9 pm . I call it crazy mom nuts. But a good crazy mom nuts, ya know?
We have three boys, Rutger (7), John Owen (5) (Owen) and Wade (2), 2 dogs and a very busy life. Usually, when I hear one of the boys ask, as I pass by their room well after bedtime, “Mom, sleep with me please.” Internally, I sigh and think of laundry or dishes – but occasionally, I remember that all that can wait. So tonight it is Owen or J, O, John, J bug, Owen, John Owen, buttercup, many pet names any time of day, he prefers Owen. He is 5. Looking at Owen you see the innocence in his face, the same look you’ve seen in your kids. The look back at you as they run to play, the tears of disappointment, the laughter at a funny joke, the joy of a new puppy, you see that innocence so easily in his face. As I stare at that tonight I cannot believe his little muscles, since birth, have been wasting away inside him. You see, Owen has the most fatal genetic disorder out there, Duchenne’s Muscular Dystrophy (DMD).
Laying there looking at our son, I cannot grasp what his future holds. Today, he is a typical 5 year old; you would see him on the playground with his friends and think nothing of his tad sluggish gate. You would never know that statistics have him wheelchair bound in 5 to 7 years. Everyday tasks for him will be a thing of the past, brushing his teeth, holding a telephone, eating, heck even breathing. Things that he can do now without a thought will be stripped away from him before most of us got our first job!
Owen’s body does not make dystrophin; in short his muscles will not continue to function without it. It is a progressive disease that will slow every muscle in his body to a halt. Laying here looking at his innocent face, he has no clue what challenges are ahead for him. Lucky for Owen, there are many amazing people in the world working hard to find a cure; Parent Project Muscular Dystrophy (www.parentprojectmd.org), The MDA (www.mda.org), Charley’s Fund (www.charleysfund.com) and more. Lucky for us we have Owen and we have the power of hope and faith.
Shortly after his diagnosis at age 4, we began John Owen’s Adventure, Inc. Our non-profit raises awareness of DMD and other childhood illnesses. We live John Owen’s Adventure every day with him; one click of your mouse to www.joainc.org will let you experience his journey! You will see that familiar look of innocence and we will hope that, together, Owen will not lose his before his time.
How much does a baby in Massachusetts really cost?
Parents,
Freelancer, Donna Roberson, is working on an article for baystateparent on the cost of having a child in the first year for our March baby issue.
We are so interested in what you have to say about the costs of baby from everything to feeding, diapers, and daycare to clothing, furniture, and the extras.
- How expensive was it? Was it more than you really planned for?
- What came up that you didn't expect?
- What was your greatest expense?
- Did you have a baby shower or previous children that helped cut down on expenses?
- Did you buy a lot of things for the first child that you didn't really need?
- Anything else in your mind that stands out from that first year.
If you respond, the article may include a quote from you with your name, number of children (and their gender and ages) and the town you live in (so please let us know!)
Thank you!
Donna Roberson, freelancer, and Carrie Wattu, editor
Freelancer, Donna Roberson, is working on an article for baystateparent on the cost of having a child in the first year for our March baby issue.
We are so interested in what you have to say about the costs of baby from everything to feeding, diapers, and daycare to clothing, furniture, and the extras.
- How expensive was it? Was it more than you really planned for?
- What came up that you didn't expect?
- What was your greatest expense?
- Did you have a baby shower or previous children that helped cut down on expenses?
- Did you buy a lot of things for the first child that you didn't really need?
- Anything else in your mind that stands out from that first year.
If you respond, the article may include a quote from you with your name, number of children (and their gender and ages) and the town you live in (so please let us know!)
Thank you!
Donna Roberson, freelancer, and Carrie Wattu, editor
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Dating my Husband
By Judith Doherty
Twelve years and two children into marriage I observe a disconnect among men and women who professed love to each other and lost the spark along the way of parenting. Women seem to connect more readily with each other than with their husbands when the children are small. Anecdotes about breastfeeding and discipline styles get traded with recipes, but the men seem to be outside of the circle.
How can couples keep a dating mentality during the childrearing years?
Certain months I am flooded with old love feelings that gush from me and make me nostalgic for new romance with the same partner who has been right next to me in bed all these years. Those days are harmonious, even more special than a new romance can be because the love is rooted in so much depth from the whole life shared. But if the truth be told, even in so-called “good marriages” romance feels fleeting. One night we might reconnect by the fireside. The next morning we are launched back into routines of alarm clocks, school buses and crying kids.
One challenge, as I see it, is the “roommate” issue. Contrast friends who visit each other periodically and share the best of themselves with husbands and wives who are apt to witness the worst of each other in daily strife. Just as with college roommates or siblings growing up, close proximity can lead to friction in married life.
To make matters even harder, parenting presents obstacles to romance and at the same time more pressures that extinguish the fire of passion. Our two-year-old, for instance, has greater stamina than I do. That night owl is a darling, but she can outlast me. I continue to rise and shine with our school aged girl, so I’m wiped out by 9PM, when the two-year-old continues to giggle and play with daddy until 10PM. So alone time is a commodity we find hard to come by.
Some solutions:
Now that we have explored the obstacles to romance, let’s look at what might provide spark this winter. My sister and her husband used to feed the kids early and get them to bed. Then once a week they had a gourmet dinner by candlelight. It seemed like a lot of work to me but to them it was a luscious tradition. For some couples it could be as simple as order out Chinese food on a picnic blanket in the living room.
Spending money for a babysitter so you can really get away from the chores and routines of the home can change the conversation. My parents dated each other on Saturday nights for many years. That example sticks with me and even if I don’t achieve it as often as I’d like when we do get out it is refreshing to the marriage.
Set aside time to talk, when the children aren’t listening in. We call it “15 minutes of cuddling” which sometimes leads to more. The close contact helps us to feel united.
Consider hiring outside help for housecleaning, if the frustration around household chores is eating away at the little time you have together. I had never believed in hiring people to clean, but when I realized that the fights I had with me husband were most often about the messy house I acknowledged that paying for assistance might relieve that pressure, I went for it.
What excites a woman changes after the children come and demand so much of her energy. I remember that hearing my husband running the vacuum cleaner was the best turn on in the toddler years.
Exercise together - It’s fun to play with your partner. Even if the children are in the sport with you the body play can be an outlet and a joy that releases tension and creates fun memories.
Some couples manage to get away to a hotel. Friends of ours actually hire a sitter and go to a hotel in the same area where they live just for the thrill of escaping their responsibilities and relaxing together.
Laughter can help renew romance. Often cuddling for a late night sitcom can rekindle our connection.
Love letters might seem a stretch but John Grey, who wrote the famous book Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus has a technique for clearing the air in cases where couples have lost a connection.
For each couple the points of connection will be different but as my husband said when we were dating, ”Love ought to be like kids in a playground, exploring and having fun.” So carving out time and space, however you can do it, to sneak away from the kids and toward each other seems worth the investment. And in these economic times it will provide greater dividends than most investments.
Judith Doherty is a Central MA mom of two young daughters as well as freelance writer.
Twelve years and two children into marriage I observe a disconnect among men and women who professed love to each other and lost the spark along the way of parenting. Women seem to connect more readily with each other than with their husbands when the children are small. Anecdotes about breastfeeding and discipline styles get traded with recipes, but the men seem to be outside of the circle.
How can couples keep a dating mentality during the childrearing years?
Certain months I am flooded with old love feelings that gush from me and make me nostalgic for new romance with the same partner who has been right next to me in bed all these years. Those days are harmonious, even more special than a new romance can be because the love is rooted in so much depth from the whole life shared. But if the truth be told, even in so-called “good marriages” romance feels fleeting. One night we might reconnect by the fireside. The next morning we are launched back into routines of alarm clocks, school buses and crying kids.
One challenge, as I see it, is the “roommate” issue. Contrast friends who visit each other periodically and share the best of themselves with husbands and wives who are apt to witness the worst of each other in daily strife. Just as with college roommates or siblings growing up, close proximity can lead to friction in married life.
To make matters even harder, parenting presents obstacles to romance and at the same time more pressures that extinguish the fire of passion. Our two-year-old, for instance, has greater stamina than I do. That night owl is a darling, but she can outlast me. I continue to rise and shine with our school aged girl, so I’m wiped out by 9PM, when the two-year-old continues to giggle and play with daddy until 10PM. So alone time is a commodity we find hard to come by.
Some solutions:
Now that we have explored the obstacles to romance, let’s look at what might provide spark this winter. My sister and her husband used to feed the kids early and get them to bed. Then once a week they had a gourmet dinner by candlelight. It seemed like a lot of work to me but to them it was a luscious tradition. For some couples it could be as simple as order out Chinese food on a picnic blanket in the living room.
Spending money for a babysitter so you can really get away from the chores and routines of the home can change the conversation. My parents dated each other on Saturday nights for many years. That example sticks with me and even if I don’t achieve it as often as I’d like when we do get out it is refreshing to the marriage.
Set aside time to talk, when the children aren’t listening in. We call it “15 minutes of cuddling” which sometimes leads to more. The close contact helps us to feel united.
Consider hiring outside help for housecleaning, if the frustration around household chores is eating away at the little time you have together. I had never believed in hiring people to clean, but when I realized that the fights I had with me husband were most often about the messy house I acknowledged that paying for assistance might relieve that pressure, I went for it.
What excites a woman changes after the children come and demand so much of her energy. I remember that hearing my husband running the vacuum cleaner was the best turn on in the toddler years.
Exercise together - It’s fun to play with your partner. Even if the children are in the sport with you the body play can be an outlet and a joy that releases tension and creates fun memories.
Some couples manage to get away to a hotel. Friends of ours actually hire a sitter and go to a hotel in the same area where they live just for the thrill of escaping their responsibilities and relaxing together.
Laughter can help renew romance. Often cuddling for a late night sitcom can rekindle our connection.
Love letters might seem a stretch but John Grey, who wrote the famous book Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus has a technique for clearing the air in cases where couples have lost a connection.
For each couple the points of connection will be different but as my husband said when we were dating, ”Love ought to be like kids in a playground, exploring and having fun.” So carving out time and space, however you can do it, to sneak away from the kids and toward each other seems worth the investment. And in these economic times it will provide greater dividends than most investments.
Judith Doherty is a Central MA mom of two young daughters as well as freelance writer.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
See you on Facebook
Thought a lot of you parents could relate to Amy Rodriguez of Belmont who wrote the following story about her Facebook experience.
Facing My Problem
I ended up on Facebook by accident. I was here, I was there, and next thing I knew I was on it. I was genuinely confused as to what had happened. Like everybody else, I had received daily pop-us from Classmates.com and, like everybody else I had ignored them. Who are these people? Who has time for this? Why would I care? Then they sent the notification, “Amy, three people have signed your guestbook.” My guest book? Who? I clicked to see who, and that is where it all began. “Amy, you must be a gold member to see your guestbook.” I hesitated for a second, but they had me hooked. I paid for a trial period and signed in. I did not have three long-lost friends. I had three names that I had never heard of.
But within weeks, I received another notification. “Kevin Conboy has sent you a message.” I have not talked to Kevin since high school, but until then, we had shared a long history since second grade. He was Conboy. I was Cooper. We were paired alphabetically for thirteen years of lab reports, gym relays, and reading circles. I spent a lot of time looking at the back of his head, since he always sat in front of me. Our sophomore biology teacher had told me to let Kevin copy my lab reports, so he could do better. When Kevin sent an email asking “for help on a lab report,” of course I had to answer. After all, I never knew that he understood the ridiculousness of the situation. Apparently, he did. When Kevin said that I should look on Facebook to see the weight he had gained since his days as a gangly Triton Viking, my curiosity got the best of me. I was once again a sucker.
I went to Facebook to find out how much weight he had gained, but when I clicked on Kevin’s little tiny profile picture, it told me, “You cannot see Kevin’s profile unless you are his friend.” Oh, I am his friend. His new friend. Click-click. That did not count. Facebook told me I had to join Facebook to be his friend, but all I needed was an email address and password. Done. So easy. Click on Kevin. Look at Kevin’s wife, mom, child. His yard. Hello, Kiddy Pool. Hello, Big Dog. I like his couch. And that was it. My first puff, sip, drag. I was addicted.
It then asked me, “Do you want to know which of your friends are on Facebook?” Why yes, of course! Almost immediately, I received emails from people I barely recognized. I did not know how this happened, but it had contacted everyone in my directory who was already on Facebook. These included old teachers, friends of friends, friends of my husband, and mothers whom I have never met from a local list serve.
I thought I wouldn’t care about these people, but I do. I have tried to explain my obsession to my husband, since much of it is actually reading about his friends and family members. I rarely post or send a message. I am obsessed, however, about reading what others have to say. It can be any others. It does not have to be a friend. I am especially fascinated by the people whom I hardly know. My friend’s husband is conservative. Who knew! Does that mean she is, too? Rob is sad and, more importantly, posting this information with an emoticon? I thought I knew him. My college roommate, the wildest one of the bunch, has a profile of her cat and posts notes on her wall “hoping to snuggle with my Boo.” What is happening here? And why has Miss Katie, my daughter’s favorite pre-K teacher from last year, posted a new album entitled “Moist Pussy?” Who is that man pouring champagne over her head, and when does she have to report to school, her pre-K school? These are the things that I must know and, until I figure them out, I will have to say, “My name is Amy, and I am on Facebook.”
Facing My Problem
I ended up on Facebook by accident. I was here, I was there, and next thing I knew I was on it. I was genuinely confused as to what had happened. Like everybody else, I had received daily pop-us from Classmates.com and, like everybody else I had ignored them. Who are these people? Who has time for this? Why would I care? Then they sent the notification, “Amy, three people have signed your guestbook.” My guest book? Who? I clicked to see who, and that is where it all began. “Amy, you must be a gold member to see your guestbook.” I hesitated for a second, but they had me hooked. I paid for a trial period and signed in. I did not have three long-lost friends. I had three names that I had never heard of.
But within weeks, I received another notification. “Kevin Conboy has sent you a message.” I have not talked to Kevin since high school, but until then, we had shared a long history since second grade. He was Conboy. I was Cooper. We were paired alphabetically for thirteen years of lab reports, gym relays, and reading circles. I spent a lot of time looking at the back of his head, since he always sat in front of me. Our sophomore biology teacher had told me to let Kevin copy my lab reports, so he could do better. When Kevin sent an email asking “for help on a lab report,” of course I had to answer. After all, I never knew that he understood the ridiculousness of the situation. Apparently, he did. When Kevin said that I should look on Facebook to see the weight he had gained since his days as a gangly Triton Viking, my curiosity got the best of me. I was once again a sucker.
I went to Facebook to find out how much weight he had gained, but when I clicked on Kevin’s little tiny profile picture, it told me, “You cannot see Kevin’s profile unless you are his friend.” Oh, I am his friend. His new friend. Click-click. That did not count. Facebook told me I had to join Facebook to be his friend, but all I needed was an email address and password. Done. So easy. Click on Kevin. Look at Kevin’s wife, mom, child. His yard. Hello, Kiddy Pool. Hello, Big Dog. I like his couch. And that was it. My first puff, sip, drag. I was addicted.
It then asked me, “Do you want to know which of your friends are on Facebook?” Why yes, of course! Almost immediately, I received emails from people I barely recognized. I did not know how this happened, but it had contacted everyone in my directory who was already on Facebook. These included old teachers, friends of friends, friends of my husband, and mothers whom I have never met from a local list serve.
I thought I wouldn’t care about these people, but I do. I have tried to explain my obsession to my husband, since much of it is actually reading about his friends and family members. I rarely post or send a message. I am obsessed, however, about reading what others have to say. It can be any others. It does not have to be a friend. I am especially fascinated by the people whom I hardly know. My friend’s husband is conservative. Who knew! Does that mean she is, too? Rob is sad and, more importantly, posting this information with an emoticon? I thought I knew him. My college roommate, the wildest one of the bunch, has a profile of her cat and posts notes on her wall “hoping to snuggle with my Boo.” What is happening here? And why has Miss Katie, my daughter’s favorite pre-K teacher from last year, posted a new album entitled “Moist Pussy?” Who is that man pouring champagne over her head, and when does she have to report to school, her pre-K school? These are the things that I must know and, until I figure them out, I will have to say, “My name is Amy, and I am on Facebook.”
Friday, January 16, 2009
Acting and Vocal Lessons
Hi Parents,
We received this press release about a new studio opening in Worcester
The Actors' Loft. Just thought I'd pass along the press release for anyone
interested...
Carrie Wattu, editor
Announcing the GRAND OPENING of the NEW Actors' Loft in Worcester's Canal District!
Worcester, MA - On Saturday January 24, 2009 Central Mass Dance Academy will be opening the doors to the BRAND NEW Actors Loft, a full scale acting school and vocal training facility located in the heart of Worcester's ever popular Canal District. The loft, located at 65 Water St, is being billed as Worcester's acting alternative. Often time’s students from across Central Massachusetts, as well as the surrounding areas, have had to go a long distance to get formal acting training, taking classes in Boston, Providence or New York. But the Actors' Loft will soon be changing all of that as it will be offering Worcester, and the entire Central Massachusetts area, a full schedule of various acting courses, every semester, year round!
The classes being offered for the lofts inaugural semester are Acting for Beginners, Beginners Vocal, Advanced Vocal, Scene Study, Cold Read, Commercial & Monologue, Acting for Teens, Acting for Kids, Film Acting I & Film Acting II (a class in which the students will actually star in their very own short film that will be shot in and around the city!) With all of these choices the Actors' Loft is determined to become the home for professional formal acting and vocal training in Central Massachusetts.
At the helm of the Loft will be Worcester's own Anthony Vorres. Anthony is an experienced actor, whose background is not only routed in acting, but in writing, directing and producing as well. Anthony has served as the writer, director and producer for four very successful plays, he has starred in numerous independent films and TV shows and next year he will resume work on his directorial film debut in 'One Cruel Day', a film in which he also serves as a producer, writer and lead star. In addition to all of that Anthony also worked as the Development Coordinator and House Manager for The Hanover Theatre for the Performing Arts during its 2008 inaugural season, and more recently as an instructor for the IMTA (International Model Talent Association). The IMTA is a nationwide competition that takes place every year in Los Angeles and NYC, it is a forum where actors from all across the nation can go to perform for some of the biggest agents and casting directors in the world. Last week, Anthony’s group of students returned from Los Angeles, where they beat out every other group in the country and swept the awards! Including one student that walked away with the prestigious ACTOR OF THE YEAR AWARD!
*The Actors Loft is located at 65 Water St Worcester, MA and is a division of Central Mass Dance Academy. CMDA is a successful Massachusetts dance academy that has been providing the Central Massachusetts area with extensive training in jazz, tap, ballet, hip-hop and progressive dance. The Actors Loft and CMDA are located in the heart of Worcester's ever popular Canal District, which is home to the city's top restaurants, shopping and entertainment complexes. For more information on course descriptions, class schedules, rates and special discounts please contact The Actors' Loft 65 Water St. Worcester, MA (508) 754-2700.
Contact:
Anthony Vorres
The Actors' Loft at CMDA
(508) 754-2700
We received this press release about a new studio opening in Worcester
The Actors' Loft. Just thought I'd pass along the press release for anyone
interested...
Carrie Wattu, editor
Announcing the GRAND OPENING of the NEW Actors' Loft in Worcester's Canal District!
Worcester, MA - On Saturday January 24, 2009 Central Mass Dance Academy will be opening the doors to the BRAND NEW Actors Loft, a full scale acting school and vocal training facility located in the heart of Worcester's ever popular Canal District. The loft, located at 65 Water St, is being billed as Worcester's acting alternative. Often time’s students from across Central Massachusetts, as well as the surrounding areas, have had to go a long distance to get formal acting training, taking classes in Boston, Providence or New York. But the Actors' Loft will soon be changing all of that as it will be offering Worcester, and the entire Central Massachusetts area, a full schedule of various acting courses, every semester, year round!
The classes being offered for the lofts inaugural semester are Acting for Beginners, Beginners Vocal, Advanced Vocal, Scene Study, Cold Read, Commercial & Monologue, Acting for Teens, Acting for Kids, Film Acting I & Film Acting II (a class in which the students will actually star in their very own short film that will be shot in and around the city!) With all of these choices the Actors' Loft is determined to become the home for professional formal acting and vocal training in Central Massachusetts.
At the helm of the Loft will be Worcester's own Anthony Vorres. Anthony is an experienced actor, whose background is not only routed in acting, but in writing, directing and producing as well. Anthony has served as the writer, director and producer for four very successful plays, he has starred in numerous independent films and TV shows and next year he will resume work on his directorial film debut in 'One Cruel Day', a film in which he also serves as a producer, writer and lead star. In addition to all of that Anthony also worked as the Development Coordinator and House Manager for The Hanover Theatre for the Performing Arts during its 2008 inaugural season, and more recently as an instructor for the IMTA (International Model Talent Association). The IMTA is a nationwide competition that takes place every year in Los Angeles and NYC, it is a forum where actors from all across the nation can go to perform for some of the biggest agents and casting directors in the world. Last week, Anthony’s group of students returned from Los Angeles, where they beat out every other group in the country and swept the awards! Including one student that walked away with the prestigious ACTOR OF THE YEAR AWARD!
*The Actors Loft is located at 65 Water St Worcester, MA and is a division of Central Mass Dance Academy. CMDA is a successful Massachusetts dance academy that has been providing the Central Massachusetts area with extensive training in jazz, tap, ballet, hip-hop and progressive dance. The Actors Loft and CMDA are located in the heart of Worcester's ever popular Canal District, which is home to the city's top restaurants, shopping and entertainment complexes. For more information on course descriptions, class schedules, rates and special discounts please contact The Actors' Loft 65 Water St. Worcester, MA (508) 754-2700.
Contact:
Anthony Vorres
The Actors' Loft at CMDA
(508) 754-2700
Do your Kids Love Animals?
We did something so memorable for my girls' 5th birthday. We went to Animal
Adventures on Sugar Road in Bolton (right off 495).
It was pricey ($17 per person), but we took an hour and a half personal,
hands-on tour. Stacey, our guide, was so great! My girls got to hold and pet so
many creatures, both furry and rough, and because it was just our family, they didn't have to take turns with a huge group of kids or raise their hands to ask questions.
My girls played with a hedgehog (so cute!), gave a chinchilla a dust bath, cuddled a
skunk, fed crickets to a huge toad, kissed a snake (I know...germs!), and so much
more. You've got to meet Hagrid and Louigi. Very cute!
We really felt that the $85 was worth it because Stacey opened all of the cages
and gave us one-on-one attention.
If you're interested, vist animaladventures.net. They offer formal birthday
parties, nocturnal nights out, school programs, and birthday parties in your
own.
Monday, January 12, 2009
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
CCo Key Winners
Congratulations to the winners of our CoCo Key Fitchburg Online Treasure Hunt!
Grand Prize: Two Night Stay at CoCo Key Water Resort, Fitchburg-
Barbara Andrews-Carlson of Shrewsbury
2nd Prize: A family four-pack to CoCo Key Water Resort, Fitchburg-
Jen Leider of Fitchburg
3rd Prize: Two tickets to CoCo Key Water Resort, Fitchburg-
Elena Haschig of Westminster
Thank you for reading baystateparent!
Grand Prize: Two Night Stay at CoCo Key Water Resort, Fitchburg-
Barbara Andrews-Carlson of Shrewsbury
2nd Prize: A family four-pack to CoCo Key Water Resort, Fitchburg-
Jen Leider of Fitchburg
3rd Prize: Two tickets to CoCo Key Water Resort, Fitchburg-
Elena Haschig of Westminster
Thank you for reading baystateparent!
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Our January Issue
We did some housekeeping in our January issue. Our updated look is organized loosely around the theme of "home".
In every issue you will find:
Take Good Care: health topics
Moms who Rock: profiles of fab moms
Under my Roof: monthly column by award-winning writer/editor,Jim Keogh
Let's Roll: places to go/things to do with the family
JunkDrawers: a little of this/A little of that...highlights people, products, and places of Massachusetts
Finally Forever: building families through adoption
Oh, the Places You'll Go: award-winning calendar of events
Plus there will be something special, feature stories, each month.
Looking forward to 2009. Thanks for reading
Friday, November 7, 2008
New Year's Eve
How are you celebrating New Year's with your Family?
Please post some ideas here!
We will feature a story in our December issue about how to "Punch up" New Year's Eve with the kids.
We'd love your ideas too!
Please post some ideas here!
We will feature a story in our December issue about how to "Punch up" New Year's Eve with the kids.
We'd love your ideas too!
How are you processing the election with the kids?
Our November issue features a story on how families are processing the election results with the kids (page 31).
In my town, we were invited to an election party last night to celebrate election week. The hosts were having the kids make noise makers for a parade.
Regardless of how you feel about the results, it's kind of cool to celebrate our country and the right to vote.
I saw red,white, and blue balloons on several mailboxes on election day.
My children came home from school with many "interesting" comments as I am sure your kids did too. It was very surprising.
My second grader has been digesting the rumors at school and trying to make sense of everything she had heard during her school's mock election.
"Mom, I heard if Obama is elected we will have two more hours of school per day.
I heard that Obama says bad things about McCain"
There is a lot to talk about.
Her Scholastic flyer came home with profiles of the candidates including the candidates' favorite foods,childhood books, and activities.
This made quite an impression on my second grader.
McCain likes Mexican food.
Barack likes Harry Potter.
It was a hard choice!
from Stacey Carroll of Holden: What are your kids saying?
My husband and I talked with our 4 ½ year old, Ryan, about the candidates and about how it’s important to learn about both candidates and then to vote for one’s personal choice. We identified the candidates to Ryan from time to time, and we always vote as a family in an attempt to have our children learn the value of voting. We were proud of our educational efforts. Then, the weekend before the election, my husband had the football game on and there were two commentators: one an older white man and the other a younger African American man. Ryan said “Oh, look! It’s Barack Obama and John McCain.” He added, “they’re running for president of the world.”
In my town, we were invited to an election party last night to celebrate election week. The hosts were having the kids make noise makers for a parade.
Regardless of how you feel about the results, it's kind of cool to celebrate our country and the right to vote.
I saw red,white, and blue balloons on several mailboxes on election day.
My children came home from school with many "interesting" comments as I am sure your kids did too. It was very surprising.
My second grader has been digesting the rumors at school and trying to make sense of everything she had heard during her school's mock election.
"Mom, I heard if Obama is elected we will have two more hours of school per day.
I heard that Obama says bad things about McCain"
There is a lot to talk about.
Her Scholastic flyer came home with profiles of the candidates including the candidates' favorite foods,childhood books, and activities.
This made quite an impression on my second grader.
McCain likes Mexican food.
Barack likes Harry Potter.
It was a hard choice!
from Stacey Carroll of Holden: What are your kids saying?
My husband and I talked with our 4 ½ year old, Ryan, about the candidates and about how it’s important to learn about both candidates and then to vote for one’s personal choice. We identified the candidates to Ryan from time to time, and we always vote as a family in an attempt to have our children learn the value of voting. We were proud of our educational efforts. Then, the weekend before the election, my husband had the football game on and there were two commentators: one an older white man and the other a younger African American man. Ryan said “Oh, look! It’s Barack Obama and John McCain.” He added, “they’re running for president of the world.”
Monday, November 3, 2008
Winners of Nim's Island DVD
In our September issue, baystateparent gave away the "Nim's Island" DVD.
Congratulations to our winners!
Steven Rousseau, Leominster
Cassandra Stejskal, Millbury
Jhonyel Galvis, Framingham
Thomas Mazeika, Sturbridge
Anna Bonin, Spencer
Pick up the November issue for more free contests!
Congratulations to our winners!
Steven Rousseau, Leominster
Cassandra Stejskal, Millbury
Jhonyel Galvis, Framingham
Thomas Mazeika, Sturbridge
Anna Bonin, Spencer
Pick up the November issue for more free contests!
Friday, October 31, 2008
Moms who Rock?
Do you know a mom who just rocks?
Send us an email, and we'll consider featuring her in a future issue of baystateparent.
Thanks
Carrie Wattu
editor@baystateparent.com
Send us an email, and we'll consider featuring her in a future issue of baystateparent.
Thanks
Carrie Wattu
editor@baystateparent.com
Mom without Limbs-Monica Jorge
Dear Readers,
Our November issue is very special because of our coverage of the Jorge Family in Ayer.
Please pick up a copy of our November 2008 issue.
If you'd like to post a message for the Jorges, please leave a comment here.
We'll share your thoughts with them.
Best,
Carrie Wattu
editor@baystateparent.com
Our November issue is very special because of our coverage of the Jorge Family in Ayer.
Please pick up a copy of our November 2008 issue.
If you'd like to post a message for the Jorges, please leave a comment here.
We'll share your thoughts with them.
Best,
Carrie Wattu
editor@baystateparent.com
What does your answering machine say?
From the Editor:
In our November issue, columnist Kerri Augusto explores the issue of when children answer the phone in, "Mom, Some Lady is on the Phone!" She points out that it's never too early to start teaching your kids to use the telephone properly. It's so simple but makes you think: Do you let your children use the phone? Do they know how to use the phone properly? Moreover, do you let them leave the voice mail message? ? Augusto points out that this is her pet peeve.
I have been "guilty" of letting the kids talk in their baby voices and sing songs on the machine. It's usually our message for a day or two. Is it cute? Or obnoxious?
Maybe both.
I do know that one of my favorite "kid" messages is on my friend's machine: two kids clearly "yelling" into the machine, "We won't let Mom come to the phone right now. Leave a message." Beep.
How typical!
So, let's hear it out there. What message is on your answering machine right now? Leave a comment here.
-Carrie Wattu
editor@baystateparent.com
P.S. And if you are curious about Augusto's answering machine? Here's what she said after writing this month's article:
Truth be told, I have a terrible habit of answering the phone like this: "Kerri
Augusto speaking. How may I help you?" Too many years of being a receptionist.... But it beats my mother who has 45 years of being a nurse to thank for her slip: "Labor and Delivery. Is this an emergency?" Needless to say, we both get a lot of ribbing from the family.
My answering machine is simple: "You've reached the Augusto residence. We are unable to answer the phone right now. Please leave a message."
But if I were to say what was REALLY on my mind, it would be: "You have reached Kerri Augusto. If you need a ride, I'm already on the road. If you need money, I'm broke. If you need answers, I'm out of ideas. If you're offering free coffee or want to schedule a playdate, leave a message and I'll call you back right away!"
In our November issue, columnist Kerri Augusto explores the issue of when children answer the phone in, "Mom, Some Lady is on the Phone!" She points out that it's never too early to start teaching your kids to use the telephone properly. It's so simple but makes you think: Do you let your children use the phone? Do they know how to use the phone properly? Moreover, do you let them leave the voice mail message? ? Augusto points out that this is her pet peeve.
I have been "guilty" of letting the kids talk in their baby voices and sing songs on the machine. It's usually our message for a day or two. Is it cute? Or obnoxious?
Maybe both.
I do know that one of my favorite "kid" messages is on my friend's machine: two kids clearly "yelling" into the machine, "We won't let Mom come to the phone right now. Leave a message." Beep.
How typical!
So, let's hear it out there. What message is on your answering machine right now? Leave a comment here.
-Carrie Wattu
editor@baystateparent.com
P.S. And if you are curious about Augusto's answering machine? Here's what she said after writing this month's article:
Truth be told, I have a terrible habit of answering the phone like this: "Kerri
Augusto speaking. How may I help you?" Too many years of being a receptionist.... But it beats my mother who has 45 years of being a nurse to thank for her slip: "Labor and Delivery. Is this an emergency?" Needless to say, we both get a lot of ribbing from the family.
My answering machine is simple: "You've reached the Augusto residence. We are unable to answer the phone right now. Please leave a message."
But if I were to say what was REALLY on my mind, it would be: "You have reached Kerri Augusto. If you need a ride, I'm already on the road. If you need money, I'm broke. If you need answers, I'm out of ideas. If you're offering free coffee or want to schedule a playdate, leave a message and I'll call you back right away!"
A Letter for the Relatives this Holiday Season-Special Needs Parenting
Dear Readers,
baystateparent's contributing writer, Sue Lovejoy of Holden, wrote a strong special needs story for our November 2008 issue entitled: Hosting the Holidays: When Little Guests Have Big Needs. Her very helpful story on how to welcome families with special needs children into your homes this holiday was inspired by the following letter.
We hope it helps you this holiday season.
The following letter was written in 1999 by Viki Gayhardt, mother of two teens on the Autism Spectrum and Autism Family Support Specialist for The Family Place, a program of Easter Seals, NH. It takes the perspective of a child on the autism apectrum, providing a clear overview of the challenges that individuals with autism may face during the holiday season.
-Sue Lovejoy, contributing writer to baystateparent
Dear Family and Friends:
(by Viki Gayhardt)
I understand that we will be visiting each other for the holidays this year! Sometimes these visits can be very hard for me, but here is some information that
might help our visit be more successful.
As you probably know, I am challenged by a hidden disability called autism, or what some people refer to as a Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD). Autism/PDD is a neurodevelopmental disorder which makes it hard for me to understand the environment around me. I have barriers in my brain that you can’t see, but which make it difficult for me to adapt to my surroundings.
Sometimes I may seem rude and abrupt, but it is only because I have to try so hard to understand people and at the same time, make myself understood. People with autism have different abilities: Some may not speak, some write beautiful poetry. Others are whizzes in math (Albert Einstein was thought to be autistic), or may have difficulty making friends. We are all different and need various degrees of support.
Sometimes when I am touched unexpectedly, it might feel painful and make me want to run away. I get easily frustrated, too. Being with lots of other people is like standing next to a moving freight train and trying to decide how and when to jump aboard. I feel frightened and confused a lot of the time. This is why I need to have things the same as much as possible. Once I learn how things happen, I can get by OK. But if something, anything, changes, then I have to relearn the situation all over again! It is very hard.
When you try to talk to me, I often can’t understand what you say because there is a lot of distraction around. I have to concentrate very hard to hear and understand one thing at a time. You might think I am ignoring you — I am not. Rather, I am hearing everything and not knowing what is most important to respond to.
Holidays are exceptionally hard because there are so many different people, places, and things going on that are out of my ordinary realm. This may be fun and adventurous for most people, but for me, it’s very hard work and can be extremely stressful. I often have to get away from all the commotion to calm down. It would be great if you had a private place set up to where I could retreat.
If I cannot sit at the meal table, do not think I am misbehaved or that my parents have no control over me. Sitting in one place for even five minutes is often impossible for me. I feel so antsy and overwhelmed by all the smells, sounds, and people — I just have to get up and move about. Please don’t hold up your meal for me — go on without me, and my parents will handle the situation the best way they know how.
Eating in general is hard for me. If you understand that autism is a sensory processing disorder, it’s no wonder eating is a problem! Think of all the senses involved with eating. Sight, smell, taste, touch, AND all the complicated mechanics that are involved. Chewing and swallowing is something that a lot of people with autism have trouble with. I am not being picky — I literally cannot eat certain foods as my sensory system and/or oral motor coordination are impaired.
Don’t be disappointed if Mom hasn’t dressed me in starch and bows. It’s because she knows how much stiff and frilly clothes can drive me buggy! I have to feel comfortable in my clothes or I will just be miserable.
When I go to someone else’s house, I may appear bossy and controlling. In a sense, I am being controlling, because that is how I try to fit into the world around me (which is so hard to figure out!) Things have to be done in a way I am familiar with or else I might get confused and frustrated. It doesn’t mean you have to change the way you are doing things — just please be patient with me, and understanding of how I have to cope.
Mom and Dad have no control over how my autism makes me feel inside. People with autism often have little things that they do to help themselves feel more comfortable. The grown ups call it “self regulation,” or “stimming.” I might rock, hum, flick my fingers, or any number of different things. I am not trying to be disruptive or weird. Again, I am doing what I have to do for my brain to adapt to your world. Sometimes I cannot stop myself from talking, singing, or doing an activity I enjoy. The grown ups call this “perseverating” which is kinda like self regulation or stimming. I do this only because I have found something to occupy myself that makes me feel comfortable. Perseverative behaviors are good to a certain degree because they help me calm down.
Please be understanding of Mom and Dad if they let me “stim” for awhile as they know me best and what helps to calm me. Remember that my Mom and Dad have to watch me much more closely than the average child. This is for my own safety, and preservation of your possessions. It hurts my parents’ feelings to be criticized for being overprotective, or condemned for not watching me close enough. They are human and have been given an assignment intended for saints. My parents are good people and need your support.
Holidays are filled with sights, sounds, and smells. The average household is turned into a busy, frantic, festive place. Remember that this may be fun for you, but it’s very hard work for me to conform. If I fall apart or act out in a way that you consider socially inappropriate, please remember that I don’t possess the neurological system that is required to follow some social rules.
I am a unique person — an interesting person. I will find my place at this celebration that is comfortable for us all, as long as you’ll try to view the world through my eyes!
baystateparent's contributing writer, Sue Lovejoy of Holden, wrote a strong special needs story for our November 2008 issue entitled: Hosting the Holidays: When Little Guests Have Big Needs. Her very helpful story on how to welcome families with special needs children into your homes this holiday was inspired by the following letter.
We hope it helps you this holiday season.
The following letter was written in 1999 by Viki Gayhardt, mother of two teens on the Autism Spectrum and Autism Family Support Specialist for The Family Place, a program of Easter Seals, NH. It takes the perspective of a child on the autism apectrum, providing a clear overview of the challenges that individuals with autism may face during the holiday season.
-Sue Lovejoy, contributing writer to baystateparent
Dear Family and Friends:
(by Viki Gayhardt)
I understand that we will be visiting each other for the holidays this year! Sometimes these visits can be very hard for me, but here is some information that
might help our visit be more successful.
As you probably know, I am challenged by a hidden disability called autism, or what some people refer to as a Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD). Autism/PDD is a neurodevelopmental disorder which makes it hard for me to understand the environment around me. I have barriers in my brain that you can’t see, but which make it difficult for me to adapt to my surroundings.
Sometimes I may seem rude and abrupt, but it is only because I have to try so hard to understand people and at the same time, make myself understood. People with autism have different abilities: Some may not speak, some write beautiful poetry. Others are whizzes in math (Albert Einstein was thought to be autistic), or may have difficulty making friends. We are all different and need various degrees of support.
Sometimes when I am touched unexpectedly, it might feel painful and make me want to run away. I get easily frustrated, too. Being with lots of other people is like standing next to a moving freight train and trying to decide how and when to jump aboard. I feel frightened and confused a lot of the time. This is why I need to have things the same as much as possible. Once I learn how things happen, I can get by OK. But if something, anything, changes, then I have to relearn the situation all over again! It is very hard.
When you try to talk to me, I often can’t understand what you say because there is a lot of distraction around. I have to concentrate very hard to hear and understand one thing at a time. You might think I am ignoring you — I am not. Rather, I am hearing everything and not knowing what is most important to respond to.
Holidays are exceptionally hard because there are so many different people, places, and things going on that are out of my ordinary realm. This may be fun and adventurous for most people, but for me, it’s very hard work and can be extremely stressful. I often have to get away from all the commotion to calm down. It would be great if you had a private place set up to where I could retreat.
If I cannot sit at the meal table, do not think I am misbehaved or that my parents have no control over me. Sitting in one place for even five minutes is often impossible for me. I feel so antsy and overwhelmed by all the smells, sounds, and people — I just have to get up and move about. Please don’t hold up your meal for me — go on without me, and my parents will handle the situation the best way they know how.
Eating in general is hard for me. If you understand that autism is a sensory processing disorder, it’s no wonder eating is a problem! Think of all the senses involved with eating. Sight, smell, taste, touch, AND all the complicated mechanics that are involved. Chewing and swallowing is something that a lot of people with autism have trouble with. I am not being picky — I literally cannot eat certain foods as my sensory system and/or oral motor coordination are impaired.
Don’t be disappointed if Mom hasn’t dressed me in starch and bows. It’s because she knows how much stiff and frilly clothes can drive me buggy! I have to feel comfortable in my clothes or I will just be miserable.
When I go to someone else’s house, I may appear bossy and controlling. In a sense, I am being controlling, because that is how I try to fit into the world around me (which is so hard to figure out!) Things have to be done in a way I am familiar with or else I might get confused and frustrated. It doesn’t mean you have to change the way you are doing things — just please be patient with me, and understanding of how I have to cope.
Mom and Dad have no control over how my autism makes me feel inside. People with autism often have little things that they do to help themselves feel more comfortable. The grown ups call it “self regulation,” or “stimming.” I might rock, hum, flick my fingers, or any number of different things. I am not trying to be disruptive or weird. Again, I am doing what I have to do for my brain to adapt to your world. Sometimes I cannot stop myself from talking, singing, or doing an activity I enjoy. The grown ups call this “perseverating” which is kinda like self regulation or stimming. I do this only because I have found something to occupy myself that makes me feel comfortable. Perseverative behaviors are good to a certain degree because they help me calm down.
Please be understanding of Mom and Dad if they let me “stim” for awhile as they know me best and what helps to calm me. Remember that my Mom and Dad have to watch me much more closely than the average child. This is for my own safety, and preservation of your possessions. It hurts my parents’ feelings to be criticized for being overprotective, or condemned for not watching me close enough. They are human and have been given an assignment intended for saints. My parents are good people and need your support.
Holidays are filled with sights, sounds, and smells. The average household is turned into a busy, frantic, festive place. Remember that this may be fun for you, but it’s very hard work for me to conform. If I fall apart or act out in a way that you consider socially inappropriate, please remember that I don’t possess the neurological system that is required to follow some social rules.
I am a unique person — an interesting person. I will find my place at this celebration that is comfortable for us all, as long as you’ll try to view the world through my eyes!
Trick or Treat with baystateparent Today!!
baystatparent is sponsoring mall-wide trick or treating at three different Simon Malls today, Friday, October 31st from 3 - 5 p.m.
The malls are Solomon Pond in Marlborough, Greendale Mall in Worcester, and Auburn Mall in Auburn.
We will be there with our November issue and plenty of candy.
See you there!!
The malls are Solomon Pond in Marlborough, Greendale Mall in Worcester, and Auburn Mall in Auburn.
We will be there with our November issue and plenty of candy.
See you there!!
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